The Catholic View on Marriage and the Sacrament of Matrimony

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The Catholic Church teaches us to hold marriage as sacred. It is a gift from the hand of God, who created male and female in his image so that they may become one body. The vision of marriage for the Catholic Church is deeply rooted in the Scripture.

In marriage, the love between a man and a woman is blessed by God. Marriage is a union in faith and a response to God’s call to holiness. The couple becomes the symbol of God’s love on earth.

What is Matrimony?

Matrimony comes from the Latin word maritare, meaning, “to wed, marry, give in marriage.” It refers to the contract made by the couple­ – a mutual alliance they enter into when they made the vow to support each other and be together for life.

According to the Catechism of the Council of Trent, ”marriage is a conjugal union between a man and a woman, both in legal status, in which they establish a perpetual and indissoluble union of lives. There are two goals in this union – procreation and education of the offspring and the mutual support of the spouses."

This definition applies to two types of marriages, the one between non-baptized person and the one between two baptized persons. There former is made according to Natural Law while the latter is the marriage according to the Catholic Church.

The Biblical Roots of Matrimony

As stated in the Sacred Scripture, God instituted marriage as the pinnacle of creation. Marriage was instituted when He created Eve and gave her as a companion to Adam. 

“It is not good for man to be alone; let us make him a like unto himself.” 

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After the original sin was committed, He blessed them, saying, “Be fertile and multiply, fill the earth and subdue it” (Genesis 1: 27-28). The Scripture teaches that marriage is not simply a human institution. It is also something God established from the foundation of the world.

When Jesus Christ healed the people of sin and its effects, marriage is also recreated and made new in Christ. Jesus tells us that in the Kingdom of God, the original intention of God in the permanent union of husband and wife can be realized once more.

What is the Sacrament of Matrimony?

Our Lord Jesus Christ has elevated marriage to the level of a Sacrament because of the deviations and disparities that marriage suffered under the Natural Law. Disparities such as the introduction of polygamy and remarriage. The Sacrament of matrimony confers a grace to the natural marriage. 

“The sacrament improves natural love by giving spouses a supernatural model for their union. They should love each other as Christ and the Church love each other.” (Eph 5:22)

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As a sacrament, the conjugal union is binding. Committing adultery is a grave offence. Its indissolubility involves more than a natural or legal obligation. Violating the sanctity of the Sacrament of Matrimony is a sin that cuts the guilty spouse from the state of grace. 

Family arises from marriage. In turn, they form the community. Parents, children, and family members form what is called the domestic church or church of the home – the primary unit of the Church. There is also a new perspective when it comes to the Sacrament of Matrimony. One spouse is meant to sanctify the other. Their offspring is not seen only as a means to populate the earth but, principally, Heaven.

Like the water that our Lord Jesus turned into wine during the wedding of Canaan, His act of raising marriage to the level of a Sacrament transformed it into a different reality.

The Catholic View on Marriage

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Since spirituality is a way to live out one’s religious beliefs, then a spirituality of marriage is a way to help husbands and wives live out the vocation of marriage in light of faith. A Catholic marriage holds a distinctive spirituality that is sacramental, communitarian, and missionary.

Marriage is sacramental because it is Christ’s unbreakable love for his people. In marriage, the couple’s life, love, and witness can make Christ visible to others. All couples who took the Sacrament of Matrimony are invited to reveal God’s loving presence and generous action in the world.

It is communitarian. Married couples form a permanent, life-giving community. They live as communities that spread God’s blessings, reach out to heal the brokenness of the family and the world, and share their gifts with those around them.

Marriage is also missionary. Happily married couples show the others what it means to be in a loving relationship where Christ is the center. They also let others know the gift of faithful married life and love. They have the potential to show others what it means to embody the life of the Holy Spirit within them.

  • Jacqueline says:

    I am thinking hard about becoming Catholic so I am trying to learn all I can. Thank you for your articles. I would like advice, please. I am in my sixties, still a virgin and just lost all my child bearing parts to cancer. What does the Church say about someone like me who has never been married? If I should happen to be blessed with a man who would want to marry me would it be against the Church since I can’t pro-create? Is there a place for people like me?

    • Alexander says:

      Dear Jacqueline, I’m so happy to hear that you are interested in entering the Church family. I want to assure you that there is a place for you in the Catholic Church, whether you are married or single. I am a convert from the Southern Baptist religion and I had many questions when I felt a call toward the Catholic Church. I encourage you to contact your closest Church and request to join RCIA, which is a class for learning more about the faith, in addition to learning all you can online. Remember not all the things you read online are true and also remember that being a Catholic does not make a person perfect, and you will find sinful people in this Church as well, unfortunately. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and trust Him to guide you. Praying the Lord will bless you on your journey, Alexander

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