Prayers to Saint Maria Faustina

Saint Maria Faustina is also known as the Apostle of the Divine Mercy. She was canonized as a saint on April 30, 2000. Saint Maria Faustina received a message of Divine Mercy from Our Lord that she was told to spread throughout the world.

Jesus said to her, 'Paint an image according to the pattern you see, with the inscription: Jesus, I trust You.' It wasn't until 3 years later that Eugene Kazimierowski painted the first image of the Divine Mercy. 

Saint Maria Faustina

Help me, O Lord, that my eyes may be merciful,
so that I may never suspect or judge from appearances,
but look for what is beautiful in my neighbor's soul.
Help me, O Lord, that my ears may be merciful,
so that I may give heed to my neighbor's needs. 
Help me, O Lord, that my tongue may be merciful,
so that I should never speak negatively of my neighbor.
Help me, O lord, that my hands may
be merciful and filled with good deeds,
so that I may do only good to my neighbor. 
Help me, O Lord, that my feet may be merciful,
so that I myself may feel all the sufferings of my neighbor. 
May Your mercy, O Lord, rest upon me. 
Amen.

This prayer to be merciful gives us a true measure of our mercy.

Saint Maria Faustina

Prayers to Saint Francis of Assisi

Legend has it that St. Francis of Assisi preached to the birds and other creatures as well as to humans. He is known today as the patron saint of animals and the environment.

Saint Francis of Assisi - Peace Prayer

Lord, make me an instrument of Your Peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love. 
Where there is injury -- pardon.
Where there is doubt -- faith.
Where there is despair -- hope.
Where there is sadness -- joy.
Oh Divine Master, grant that I may
not so much seek to be
consoled, as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen.

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Saint Francis of Assisi

Prayer for my Pet

In Your infinite wisdom, Lord God, when You created the Universe You blessed us with all
living creatures. We especially thank You for giving us our pets who are our friends and who bring us so much joy in life. Their presence very often helps us get through trying times. Kindly bless my pet. May my pet continue giving me joy and remind me of Your power.

May we realize that as our pets trust us to take care of them, so we should trust You to take care of us, and in taking care of them we share in Your love for all Your creatures. Enlighten our minds to preserve all endangered species so that we may continue to appreciate all of Your creations.

Grant this through Christ our
Lord. Amen.

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Saint Francis of Assisi

Prayers to Saint Therese

Saint Therese

Saint Therese of Lisieux is one of the most popular and well known saints, having been canonized by Pope Pius XI in 1925. From Normandy in France, Therese was a Carmelite nun, answering the call at only fifteen and followed a simple and practical spiritual life. She contracted tuberculosis at the age of 24 and passed away.

Saint Therese is commonly known as "The Little Flower of Jesus" who lived her life quietly but became well known posthumously because of her spiritual autobiography.

Saint Therese the Little Flower

St. Therese,
The Little Flower,
please pick me a rose
from the Heavenly garden
and send it to me
with a message of love.
Ask God to grant me
the favor I thee implore
and tell Him I will love Him
each day more and more.

(The above prayer, plus 5 Our Father's, 5 Hail Mary's, and 5 Glory Be's, must be said on 5 successive days, before 11 A.M. On the 5th day, the 5th set of prayers having been completed, offer one more set - 5 Our Father's, 5 Hail Mary's and 5 Glory Be's.)

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Saint Therese

Prayer to Her

Your servant of God,
St. Therese of the Child 
Jesus, who in her dying moments did say:
I will spend my heaven in doing good upon earth, hasten to let fall upon me a shower of
roses that I too may be
inflamed with that fire of love 
which burned so brilliantly in 
your heart and which 
brought you so gloriously to 
the arms of Jesus, my lord 
and my God. Amen.

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Saint Therese

How Are Catholics to View Asylum Seekers and Migrants

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​There are about 65.6 million refugees, asylum seekers and migrants around the world according to the UN Refugee Agency. Beyond this unprecedented figure are stories of people who have been forced away from the security of their own homes and have to find their way in strange, unfamiliar countries.

Who Are Asylum Seekers

An asylum seeker is a person who has fled from their home country because of dangerous circumstances such as war or political unrest. They move to another country seeking protection and the possibility of living there.

Living in a new country can be a frightening experience especially for refugees who have no place that they can call home. They went through indescribable trauma and violence in their homelands, becoming separated from their family, losing loved ones and seeing their homes destroyed.

Most refugees undergo thorough screening depending on the country they are trying to move to. Some of them end up moving through various countries and have to go through rigid evaluation.

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Once they arrive in a new country, they face a new set of challenges like adjusting to an unfamiliar culture, language barriers, financial constraints, health problems, and, in worse cases, hate crimes and discrimination.

Countries experiencing an influx of asylum seekers are often put in a tight spot when it comes to deciding whether to grant asylum or not. On one hand, it is understandable that these immigrants are in a desperate need of a safe place to resettle with their families and they cannot be left alone to look after themselves.

On the other hand, there are many risks involved in admitting foreigners, some of them threatening to the lives of the citizens of the country. For example, terrorists may take advantage of the situation and cross borders disguised as a refugee. This legitimate threat has made it challenging for some countries to allow asylum seekers easy entry.

The refugee crisis is complex and may be can be viewed through many perspectives. In a faith perspective, what role do we play in the global refugee crisis? How do we view this predicament in the context of the teachings of the Catholic Church?

What the Catholic Church Says

“For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, a stranger and you welcomed me.”  Matthew 25:35

According to the “Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Catholic Church,” Christians have an obligation to the common good and must help provide social conditions vital “for people, either in groups or as individuals, to reach their fulfillment more fully and more easily.

He said to him, “You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.This is the greatest and the first commandment.The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.”   Matthew 37:40

The concept of the common good is built on solidarity which requires that all individuals work to make life livable for all. Each person has a part to play in promoting the common good more so if he or she is a Christian.

The Bible teaches us that humans are created in the image and likeness of God. Therefore we must treat one another with respect and reverence regardless of their race or religion. We also have a responsibility to love our neighbors as we love ourselves, a command which is said to be the foundation of all other commandments and laws.

The Catholic Church emphasizes that the demands of human dignity must always come before national interest. It teaches us to protect and help innocent victims and those who are fleeing for their lives. Prolonged immigration detention or refusing asylum fail to uphold the Catholic virtues of justice and mercy.

What We Can Do

The refugee crisis is an overwhelming problem and there is no easy and instant solution for it. Our Catholic Faith teaches us to play our individual parts and do what we can even on a personal level.

Here are three simple ways we can do this:

Donate

There are many parishes, Catholic groups and foundations focused on providing assistance to refugees. Share your blessings to these groups so that they can better function and help those who are in need.

Volunteer

If you have the time and skills, you may do volunteer work in organizations supporting asylum seekers. Many charitable organizations are built on the selfless efforts of volunteers so every little contribution can go a long way.

Be Kind

When you seem someone who looks like they are from a foreign country, be kind. It’s not easy to be a stranger in a foreign land so smile, greet them and make them feel welcome.

Prayers to Saint Michael

We ask Saint Michael for his intercession for his protection to guide and watch over our family members.

Saint Michael the Archangel

Saint Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our protection against
the wickedness and
snares of the devil. 
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray.
And do thou, O Prince 
of the heavenly host, 
by the power of God, 
thrust into hell Satan 
and all evil spirits 
who wander through
the world for the
ruin of souls.
Amen. 

Saint Michael

A Police Officer's Prayer

Dear Lord, be with me
when I am on duty this day
and every day.
Let me be kindly to the
old, and to the young be
strong; but let me triumph
over those whose acts are
cruel or wrong.
Lord, when my own last
summons comes and I stand
in your court, may my rest
with you be long and my
punishment be short. Amen. 

Saint Michael

Prayer for Those in the Service

Almighty God, we 
stand before You asking 
for Your divine mercy 
and protection 

Embrace with Your 
invincible armour our 
loved ones in all 
branches of the service.

Give them courage and 
strength against all 
enemies both spiritual 
and physical and hasten 
their safe journey back 
to their homes and 
families. Amen. 

Saint Michael

Prayers to Saint Raphael

Saint Raphael

Saint Raphael is known as the patron saint of medical workers and matchmakers. He is one of seven Archangels who stand before the throne of the Lord and is often given credit for seeing the light of heaven and for receiving all good things through his intercession.

Saint Raphael the Archangel

Glorious Archangel St. Raphael, 
great prince of the heavenly court, 
you are illustrious for your gifts of 
wisdom and grace. You are a 
guide of those who journey by land 
or sea or air, consoler of the 
afflicted, and refuge of sinners. 
I beg you, assist me in all my
needs and in all the sufferings of 
this life, as once you helped the
young Tobias on his travels. 
Because you are the "medicine of
God," I humbly pray you to heal the
many infirmities of my soul and the
ills that afflict my body. I especially
ask of you the favor of (here name
your favor), and the great grace of
purity to prepare me to be the
temple of the Holy Spirit.
Amen. 

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Saint Raphael
Saint Raphael

Prayer to Saint Raphael the Archangel

Most glorious Prince,
Archangel Raphael,
be mindful of us
and pray for us,
here and in every place,
to the Son of God.
O God, who gave
your servant Tobias
the holy archangel Raphael
for a companion on his journey,
grant that during our
earthly pilgrimage
we may always be protected
by his watchful care and
strengthened by his help.
Through Christ Our Lord.
Amen. 

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Saint Raphael

The Key Differences Between Salvation and Redemption

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Salvation and redemption are at the core of our Catholic Faith. You have probably read about salvation in the bible or heard the word redemption during mass. Are these two concepts interchangeable? What are the key differences between salvation and redemption?

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What is the Difference Between Salvation and Redemption?

Salvation and redemption are both important concepts in the Catholic Faith and there are key differences that exist between the two. Jesus’ sacrificial death on the cross is the act of redemption that forgave us from our sins and spared us from a life of eternal damnation. Redemption is just the first step of salvation and the first part of our life as a child of God.

What Redemption Means in the Catholic Faith

Redemption is defined as the process of restoring man from the bondage of sin to the liberty of the children of God through the satisfactions and merits of Christ. The word redemption is derived from the Latin Vulgate word “redemptio,” is a rendering of the Hebrew word “kopher” and the Greek word “lytron” which means ransom price in the Old Testament. 

For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. - Romans 6:23

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Redemption involves both God and man. On God’s part, divine honour has been repaired and divine wrath has been appeased. On our part as sinners redemption means deliverance from the bondage of sin and the restoration of our relationship with God. 

In our natural human states we are all sinful and unworthy of a life in heaven. Regardless of the good works we do on earth, we are unable to meet God’s divine standards and we are fated to face a final judgment that will determine where we will spend eternity, either in heaven or hell.


In him we have redemption by his blood, the forgiveness of transgressions, in accord with the riches of his grace. - Ephesians 1:7

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However, Our Heavenly Father is a merciful and loving God and He wants us to be redeemed from a life of eternal damnation. He overlooked our faults and sinfulness and saved us through grace.

The meaning of redemption in the Catholic Faith is the act by which Jesus saved us from the slavery of sin, this act is his sacrificial death on the cross.

Redemption involves going from one state to another. In the Catholic context, it is Christ liberating us from an old life of sin to freedom of a new life in him.

What is The Process of Salvation?

Our lives as children of God does not begin and end in redemption. After we are redeemed from our sins and reconciled with God, we begin the process of salvation. In the Council of Trent, salvation from sin begins with the grace of God touching a sinner’s heart and calling him to repent.

This grace is a product of the love and mercy of God and it is our choice whether to receive this grace or reject it. If we choose to receive grace, we choose a life aligned with the will of God but it we don’t receive it, we remain in a life of sin. 

After receiving grace, we as sinners are disposed for salvation from sin. From this, we believe in the revelation and promises of God, we fear God’s justice, we hope in His mercy, we trust that God will be merciful to us for Christ’s sake, we begin to love God as the source of all justice and we begin to hate sin. 

For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life. – John 3:16

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Justification comes after our disposition for salvation and this is not just simply the remission of our sins but the sanctification and renewal of our inner selves through our voluntary reception of God’s grace and gifts. This inner transformation will manifest in the way we live our lives and how we treat others.

How Do We Maintain Our Salvation?

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Salvation therefore is not a one-time event. It is not simply accepting the grace of God, it involves constantly choosing a Christian way of life and following the teachings of the church. 

When Christ died on the cross he did this to redeem ALL of mankind. To be redeemed by Christ is an invitation to salvation. Salvation is for each INDIVIDUAL to either accept of reject God's gifts. Salvation and redemption are beautiful gifts that we are all very blessed to receive.

Important Principles to Maintain Salvation:

  • Love God: Loving God is said to be the first and greatest commandment. We should not allow anything to get in the way of our devotion to our Heavenly Father. We demonstrate our love for God by following His commands and by acknowledging Him as the source of everything.
  • Love your neighbors: Our neighbors are the people around us, our family, friends and even people we don’t know. To love our neighbors means showing them respect, compassion and forgiveness regardless of their race and religion. God loves us all equally as His children.
  • Live a righteous life: The Bible is a good source of wisdom as to how we should live a morally upright life. God wants us to experience lasting peace and this can only be achieved if we live according to His ways.
  • Repent: When we choose the path of sin, we are isolated from God and we begin to feel a lack of peace and a sense of guilt. We can only return to our former state of grace if we repent and ask for forgiveness. Repentance is not simply confessing our sins, though. It is genuinely resolving not to commit the same mistakes.


How did you experience salvation and redemption in your life? 

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The Real Meaning Of Pilgrimage For Catholics

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What is a Pilgrimage?

A pilgrimage is a journey that pilgrims make to a place that is considered holy. To us Catholics, a pilgrimage is more than just traveling to historic sites and viewing religious relics. It is a journey with a deeper and more spiritual meaning.

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The word pilgrim comes from the Latin word “peregrinum” which conveys the idea of wandering over a distance. A pilgrimage is not purposeless wandering. It is a journey with a higher purpose and that purpose is to honor God.

One of the earliest use of the word can be found in works of Saint Augustine of Hippo. In his text, “Peregrinatio,” he described a Christian spiritual journey as a self-imposed exile of the pilgrim in which he searched for God’s truth

Pilgrimages are steeped in religious history. It all started around 957 BC when the temple was built at Jerusalem and because of this all Jewish men were obliged to present themselves there for three major feasts. Today the Jews call these feasts the “Pilgrimage Festivals.” These feasts include:

  • Pesach - The Feast of the Unleavened Bread
  • Shavu’ot - The Feast of Weeks or Pentecost
  • Sukkot - The Feast of Tabernacles or Festival of Ingathering

After the death and resurrection of Jesus and the spread of Christianity, Christians were inspired to follow the footsteps of their Savior, the Holy Mother and the Apostles. Pilgrimages became a significant part of the Catholic tradition in the 4th century when Christians traveled to different places that were part of Jesus’ life or in the tombs of martyrs and saints.

Many devotees would visit these sites and tombs even during a time of religious persecution. This act served as a deep expression of their reverence for God. By honoring the saints, the pilgrims honored God, too.

An Act of Sacrifice and Penitence

Christian pilgrimages became very popular in the Middle Ages. The pilgrims in the Middle Ages carried symbols with them like a scallop shell or a special scarf which marked them as pilgrims. The most sought after pilgrimage were those that took place in the Holy Land. Embarking on a pilgrimage outside familiar areas in Europe was not only financially challenging, it was potentially life threatening. Many robbers waited to ambush travelers in order to steal from them and there were many dangerous deserts to cross. Many pilgrims were injured or killed because of this.

From time to time, pilgrimages were required as an act of penance when someone committed a grave sin. Going on a pilgrimage involved great hardship because the sinners were asked to walk barefoot and in tattered clothing. He also had to beg for his food throughout the journey. This was definitely the stark opposite of what we imagine pilgrimages are in the modern day. There were no luxury hotels and guided tours. In fact, a pilgrimage was every bit an act of great sacrifice.

A Transformative Inner Journey

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A pilgrimage has moral and spiritual significance to the pilgrim. Generally, it involves embarking on a journey to a shrine or site that the pilgrim considers important in light of his faith and religious convictions. There is much to see, discover and learn from visits to these religious locations. There is also a rich, inner transformation that can be had from a pilgrimage.

 A pilgrimage lets us plan and immerse ourselves in the cultural, historical and spiritual aspects of the life of Jesus and the saints.

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Since some pilgrimages can be done in groups it is a great opportunity for us to bond with people who share in our beliefs. We can grow stronger together as one spiritual family as we deepen our understanding of the lives of different religious figures.

The Importance of Prayer

A pilgrimage is not a vacation or holiday trip. It is a beautiful opportunity for us Catholics to grow in our faith and see the life of Jesus and the saints in a new light. There are important preparations to be made such as finances and logistics. However, we must not forget that a pilgrimage is a spiritual experience so we must prepare for it spiritually as well.

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Prayer is the most basic yet most important act of preparation we can do prior to the pilgrimage. Before you select your destination, pray and ask God to guide you to make the best place and sites for you to go.

After God has revealed a destination, start praying every day. Pour out whatever concerns you have about the journey and ask God to give you a humble and receptive heart and spirit.

When you arrive at the site, be in a prayerful and reflective mindset. This is a rare and important time for you to witness and feel what God has to say to you through the lives and legacies of his followers.

7 Beautiful Pilgrimage Sites

The Holy Land

The Holy Land, Israel

Our lady of Fatima

Our Lady of Fatima, Portugal

Our Lady of Lourdes

Our Lady of Lourdes, France

The vatican

The Vatican, Italy

Assisi, Italy

Assisi, Italy

Our Lady of Guadalupe


Our Lady of Guadalupe, Mexico

Divine Mercy Sanctuary

Divine Mercy Sanctuary, Poland


If you have been to a pilgrimage, what spiritual insights transformed you after the trip?

If you haven't, are you planning to embark on a pilgrimage any time soon?

What places and sites do you dream of visiting? 

Prayers to Saint Padre Pio

Saint Pio of Pietrelcina, better known as Saint Padre Pio, gained fame and a following due to his stigmata. To this day Padre Pio is one of the most popular saints and many make the pilgrimage to the church in San Giovanni Rotondo.

Prayer to Saint Padre Pio

O God,
You gave Saint Pio of Pietrelcina,
capuchin priest,
the great privilege
of participating
in a unique way
in the passion of Your Son,
grant me,
through his intercession
the grace of ....
which I ardently desire;
and above all grant me
the grace of living in conformity
with the death of Jesus,
to arrive at the glory
of the resurrection. ​

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Saint Pio

O Glorious Saint Pio,
bearing the wounds of Christ you 
generously accepted your 
sufferings, and labored faithfully
for the good of all souls.
Help me to embrace that same
attitude of acceptance in my life.
With confidence, I ask for your
intercession to obtain the grace of
(make your request),
which I ardently desire.
If it is not, however, God's will that
this should come to pass,
then help me to find serenity and
joy in God's choice for me.
Amen.

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Prayers to Saint Matthew

Saint Matthew

Saint Matthew is the patron saint of accountants and bankers. Matthew was a Galilean tax collector in 63BC. He invited Jesus home for a feast. He was one of the twelve apostles of Jesus.

Prayer to Saint Matthew

O Glorious St. Matthew,
in your Gospel you portray Jesus
as the longed-for Messiah
who fulfilled the Prophets
of the Old Covenant and
as the Lawgiver who founded
a Church of the New Covenant.
Obtain for us the grace to see
Jesus living in His Church and
to follow His teaching in our lives
on Earth so that we may live forever
with Him in heaven.
Amen.

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Prayer to Saint Matthew

O Glorious St. Matthew
through the grace of God 
Our Father you gave us the Holy Gospel,

which brings us joy and life.
Inspired by your example,

I ask for your assistance

in all my needs. 

Help me to follow Christ

and remain faithful to His service.

Amen.

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Saint Matthew

Saint Matthew​

God of Mercy
You chose a tax collector,
Saint Matthew, to share
the dignity of the apostles. 
By his example 
and prayers help us follow 
Christ and remain faithful in 
Your service.
We ask this through 
Our Lord Jesus Christ, 
Your Son, who lives
and reigns with You 
and the Holy Spirit, 
one God, forever and ever.

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What are the 12 Fruits of the Holy Spirit?

As Christians, we are expected to manifest the twelve fruits of the Holy Spirit in our lives. These twelve fruits are different from the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit. These gifts are wisdom, understanding, counsel, fortitude, knowledge, piety and fear of the Lord. They are granted to us during our baptism and perfected through the Sacrament of Confirmation.

Fruits of the Holy Spirit

The seven gifts serve as virtues for us to follow while the twelve fruits are the actions that those virtues produce. We are expected to manifest these fruits in our lives as Christians.

What are the 12 Fruits of the Holy Spirit?

Saint Paul lists down the fruits of the Holy Spirit in his letter to the Galatians. There are two versions of this text and first version features only nine traditional fruits. The longer text which Saint Jerome used in his Latin translation of the Bible includes three more.

The Latin translation of the Bible is known as the Vulgate and it is the official Biblical text that the Catholic Church uses. This is why we are taught that there are 12 fruits and not nine.

In contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. – Galatians 5:22-23

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The following are the 12 fruits of the Holy Spirit and what they mean:

1. Charity (or Love)

Charity encompasses our love for God and of our neighbors. This kind of love is not simply a passing feeling or infatuation. It is an unconditional kind of love that expects nothing in return. It puts the needs of others before our own and it manifests in concrete actions toward God and other people.

2. Joy

We all want to be happy but the happiness found in earthly things is fleeting. The joy that is part of the 12 fruits is not an emotional state. Rather, it is a lasting kind of happiness that can only be realized when we put God at the center of our lives and if we believe that we will live our eternal life with Him.

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3. Peace

Peace is tranquility that can be experienced when we put our complete trust in God. When we rely on God, we believe that he will provide for our needs and this relieves us from any anxious thoughts about the future.

4. Patience

Patience allows us to have compassion over people in spite of their flaws and weaknesses. This fruit comes from an understanding of our own imperfect state and how God has given us His unconditional love and mercy so we should do the same for others.

5. Kindness

Kindness or benignity is more than being kind to others. It is having a heart that is willing to do acts of compassion and give to others above and beyond what we owe to them.

6. Goodness

Being good involves constant renouncing of evil in our day to day actions. When we are good, we are constantly seeking the path of righteousness and strive to do God’s will even at the expense of earthly success.

7. Longanimity

Longanimity is being patient even when being provoked. While patience involves tolerance, longanimity means enduring quietly and remaining steadfast in the midst of attacks of others.

The world will certainly become a much more peaceful and happier place if we all worked on becoming more Christ-like everyday.

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8. Mildness

To be mild in behavior means having a heart of forgiveness and grace. It means not being easily provoked and choosing a response of meekness and peace rather than one that leads to revenge.

9. Faith

Faith is at the core of our Christianity. To have faith means living according to the will of God and believing that He is the master of our life.

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10. Modesty

Being modest means being humble. It is believing that any of our successes, blessings and talents are gifts from God. It also means being content with what we have and not harbor any selfish ambitions.

11. Continence

Continence means having temperance and self-control. It does not mean denying ourselves from what we need or want, it is the ability to exercise moderation in everything we do.

12. Chastity

Chastity means giving ourselves to Christ completely whether as a priest, religious or layman. All vocations are called to have chaste in their way of living. Chastity also means indulging our physical desires within the right context such as being sexually pure before marriage and by remaining faithful to one’s spouse.

As a member of the Catholic Faith we are expected to manifest these twelve fruits in our day to day actions. It can be a struggle to remain steadfast and live a Christian way of life especially with all the mixed messages and negative influences that we receive from our culture. However this should only challenge us even more to cultivate our character.


Let the Holy Spirit guide you with these beautiful gifts!


How do you demonstrate the 12 Fruits of the Holy Spirit in your day to day actions?

What is the Catholic Position on Assisted Suicide?

Did you know Physician-assisted suicide is legal in five US states? Although it may seem like a viable option if we think about the painful effects of the patient’s degenerative disease, it is not reason enough to consider ending a life.

The Church’s Perspective on Human Life

Assisted suicide, euthanasia or mercy killing is defined by the 1980 declaration from the Vatican as an action or omission which of itself or by intention causes death in order to eliminate suffering that could be caused by a degenerative disease.

When discussing subjects involving human life, we must first remember the church’s views on human life. First and foremost we must keep in mind that the church considers both human life and human dignity sacred.

Then God said: Let us make human beings in our image, after our likeness. Let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air, the tame animals, all the wild animals, and all the creatures that crawl on the earth.God created mankind in his image;in the image of God he created them;male and female* he created them.  Genesis 1:26-27

The Bible teaches us that we are all created in the image and likeness of God therefore anything that harms the life and dignity of an individual is considered an offense against God. Atrocious acts like murder, genocide, rape and abortion should be condemned as immoral and evil.

Second, as members of God’s family we are expected to live life according to God’s purpose and plan. We must be humble and open to accept the will of our Heavenly Father for our lives. These principles remind us that our life is God’s gift to us and that we must not take it for granted.

What the Church Says About Assisted Suicide

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”  Mark 12:30-31

One of the most common reasons why people consider assisted suicide is because they suffer from a degenerative disease. Some illnesses become so debilitating that people would rather choose to end their life and thus end their suffering.

The Catholic Church condemns assisted suicide as morally unacceptable regardless of the motives and means. First because assisted suicide goes against the core belief of Christianity that all human life is sacred. This principle applies not just to the lives of people who are healthy but also to the lives of people who are weak and ill.

Second, God commands us to love our neighbors as ourselves so we have a moral and spiritual responsibility to look after our fellow men and women and more so if they are elderly, sick or dying. Assisted suicide goes against our natural inclination as human beings to preserve life. There is more than one solution to suffering than totally eliminating life and the chance of a person to survive. We must do all that we can to help the ill or physically challenged people to live life as normal as possible.

He said,“Naked I came forth from my mother’s womb,and naked shall I go back there.The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away;blessed be the name of the LORD!”  Job 1:21

Last but not the least, although we do not wish to suffer and be in pain, these negative circumstances are an opportune time for us to grow in wisdom and faith. It may be difficult to accept but it is during times of great turmoil and tribulation that we can truly see the indescribable power of God.

Stewards of Life

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One of the things that make assisted suicide ungodly is that it empowers people to decide which kind of life is worth living and which one should be terminated. This central philosophy goes against the very foundation of our faith. Our faith teaches us to love our God and to surrender to His will.

Each one of us is responsible for the life that our Heavenly Father gave to us. We are stewards of this precious gift and must accept and live it gratefully. However, it is God who remains the sovereign master of life so we are not entitled to choose when and how to end it.

Life and death are both gifts from God. Death marks the end of our existence here on earth but in a spiritual perspective, it is the beginning of our new life in eternity. Our lives on earth is but a temporary journey that prepares us for our eternal life with our Father so we must do our best to live our journey in the most Christian way possible.

There are countless stories of men and women in the Bible whose lives were transformed after they underwent indescribable suffering. Their testimonies teach us that we must not underestimate the power of God to redeem us and offer us healing even from an incurable degenerative disease.

Prayers for the Sick and Dying

Prayer of the Elderly, Bl. Pope John Paul II, 1999 
Grant, O Lord of life, That we may savor every season of our lives as a gift filled with promise for the future. Grant that we may lovingly accept your will, and place ourselves each day in your merciful hands. And when the moment of our definitive “passage” comes, grant that we may face it with serenity, without regret for what we shall leave behind. For in meeting you, after having sought you for so long, we shall find once more every authentic good which we have known here on earth, in the company of all who have gone before us marked with the sign of faith and hope. Mary, Mother of pilgrim humanity, pray for us “now and at the hour of our death.” Keep us ever close to Jesus, your beloved Son and our bother, the Lord of life and glory. Amen! 

Prayer For Renewed Strength 

O Lord, my God, Please give me the grace to maintain my hope in you through all of life’s changes and to taste and see your goodness. I praise you for the gifts you have showered on me for so many years. Help me find joy in a renewed strength of spirit. Please bless me with good health, and inspire me to be a good example to others. For you are Lord, forever and ever. Amen. 

Prayers to Saint Gregory

Saint Gregory is the patron saint of Educators, Musicians and Singers. He was born into a wealthy family. He sold his possessions and built monasteries in Rome and Sicily with the money he made. Gregory was elected Pope and sent Saint Austin to convert Anglo-Saxons to Christianity.

Saint Gregory the Great's Easter Prayer

It is only right
with all the powers of our heart and mind,
to praise You Father
and your Only-begotten Son,
Our Lord Jesus Christ:
Dear Father, by Your wondrous
condescension of loving-kindness toward us,
Your servants, You gave up Your Son.
Dear Jesus, You paid the debt of Adam
for us to the Eternal Father by
Your blood poured
forth in loving-kindness.
You cleared away the darkness of sin
By Your magnificent and radiant Resurrection. 
You broke the bonds of death
and rose from the grave as a Conqueror.
You reconciled heaven and earth. 
Our life had no hope of eternal happiness
before You redeemed us. 
Your Resurrection has washed away our sins,
restored our innocence and brought us joy.
How inestimbale is the tenderness 
of Your love!

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Saint Gregory
Saint Gregory

Prayer to Saint Gregory the Great

Father, you guide your people
with kindness and govern
us with love.

By the prayers of Saint Gregory
give the spirit of wisdom
to those you have called to lead
your Church.

May growth of your people
in holiness be the eternal joy of
your shepherds.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ,
Your Son, who lives and reigns
with you in the unity of the
Holy Spirit, one God,
for ever and ever.
Amen.

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Fighting Temptations : A Practical Guide for Catholics

​Blessed is the man who perseveres in temptation, for when he has been proved he will receive the crown of life that he promised to those who love him.  James 1:12


The Bible is filled with stories of people fighting temptations in their day to day lives. In the book of Genesis, we read about the serpent tempting Eve to partake of the forbidden fruit. Even Jesus was tempted and put to the test during his time on earth.

In Matthew 4, the Devil offered Jesus all the kingdoms of the world if he would bow down to him but Jesus resisted and he was delivered from sin.

Then the devil took him up to a very high mountain, and showed him all the kingdoms of the world in their magnificence,and he said to him, “All these I shall give to you, if you will prostrate yourself and worship me.”At this, Jesus said to him, “Get away, Satan! It is written:‘The Lord, your God, shall you worship and him alone shall you serve.’”Then the devil left him and, behold, angels came and ministered to him.  Matthew 4:5-11

Temptation is something that entices us to act against reason and the commandments of God. They come in different forms and leads to different kinds of sin, some as small and seemingly harmless as gossiping or something as grave and atrocious as murder. All of these situations began with us being confronted with a choice of either succumbing to temptation or resisting it.

Fighting temptations is all part of our lives as Christians. Every day there is an ongoing battle between our spiritual nature, the part that unites us with God, and our human nature which is weak and vulnerable to sin. Unfortunately, it is not always easy to stand fast in our faith and overcome temptation.

Some temptations are easier to overcome than others and we often hear people use the phrase, “I am only human and humans are bound to sin” in order to justify falling into temptation. But is this argument valid?

The Gift of Free Will and the Armor of God

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.  Ephesians 6:12

God gave us the gift of free will and it is through this gift that we are able to make choices that will either bring us lasting peace or destruction. We must remember that as Christians we are caught in the middle of a spiritual battle for our souls.

There is a spiritual aspect to everything in life and every choice we make prepares us for our life in eternity with our Heavenly Father. By choosing the righteous path, we grow in wisdom and build our faith. We become more confident when going through life’s difficulties.

On the other hand, when we let go of our better judgment and give in to temptation, we isolate ourselves from God and our fellow Christians. We become wracked with guilt and are unable to reconcile our spiritual and righteous side with our human side.

Types of Temptations

Our lives are filled with temptations that can be hostile and opposed to God. Some examples of the most common temptations are:

  • Money and Greed 
  • Corrupt Power
  • Lust (sexual immorality)
  • Gossip and Lies
  • To do another harm
  • Pride
  • Envy
  • Anger
  • Gluttony (i.e. eating too much, overuse of your phone / internet)
  • Sloth (procrastination, laziness)

Practical Steps for Resisting Temptation

No trial has come to you but what is human. God is faithful and will not let you be tried beyond your strength; but with the trial he will also provide a way out, so that you may be able to bear it.   1 Corinthians 10:13


Here are 4 practical strategies to overcome difficult situations:

1. Recognize your tendency to sin

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First, we need to realize that we are sinful and in need of God’s grace in order to be redeemed from the clutches of temptation. It is true that our human nature is weak and susceptible to sin but we must remember that we have a choice not to be enslaved by our flesh.

List down the bad habits and negative behavioral patterns that you constantly struggle to overcome and acknowledge that these are wrong. Identify your trigger areas (things, situations or people) that cause you to fall and find ways to avoid these.

2. Equip yourself with God’s Word

God’s Word is our beacon of light for navigating through today’s world. Read and reflect over the Bible and find practical applications for what you learn. There are also many devotional and spiritual books that can help supplement our Bible readings. Use these books as positive influences for making decisions and confronting your struggles.

3. Find a healthy support group

A positive support group can help you face even the hardest trials. Find a support group that share your Christian values and with whom you can be accountable to. Your support group can include your parish priest and other people who you are comfortable sharing your struggles with.

Be honest with what you are going through so they can help pray for you and and guide you.

4. Repent immediately

Fighting temptations is a daily struggle and there will be times when you will fall. Instead of wallowing in despair, immediately repent. Go to confession and tell your support group about your struggles. Be sincere when you confess and ask for guidance from your parish priest or support group.


We live in a world that has increasingly blurred the lines between what is right and wrong. It’s no longer as easy to tell apart good from evil. However, we must take comfort in the fact that God is faithful and will never abandon us. He will always offer us a way out of any predicament no matter how serious.

Why Do We Sit, Stand and Kneel at Catholic Mass?

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The Basics of the Catholic Mass Order

The Catholic Faith liturgy follows its own unique set of religious rituals and traditions which are part of the Catholic Mass Order. As a member of the Catholic Faith, you probably observed some of these practices which include sitting, standing and kneeling during mass. So why do we do these things and what do they signify?

To better understand the meaning behind the physical gestures that we perform during the Catholic Mass, we need to keep in mind two basic elements of the Catholic Mass Order.

The priest acts as Jesus

During the mass, the priest is not just leading the celebration of the Eucharist, he is acting the role of Jesus.

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As Jesus, he leads us to do the different gestures, traditions and rituals that are part of the Catholic Mass Order. This is why we sit and stand when the priest sits and stands. This is also the reason why altar servers and other priests bow when they approach the celebrating priest. In this way they are showing reverence to Christ who is represented by the priest.

Jesus is present in the Eucharist

Another important thing that we should understand about the Catholic Mass is that Jesus is present in the consecrated Eucharist. This is in accordance to the doctrine of transubstantiation which states that the bread and wine become Jesus at a certain point during the Mass. The bread and wine retain their appearance but are actually transformed into the body and blood of Christ.

Why We Sit During the Mass

At the beginning of every mass, we start in a sitting position. Sitting is considered the base position of worship. This is the position from which we can stand and kneel. We sit when we are listening to the first two readings during Mass which is based on the Lectionary.

We also sit down after the Gospel reading, focused and attentively taking in the homily. We remain while waiting for the Eucharistic elements to be prepared, a very meaningful gesture because we expectantly wait and rise when the priest is ready.

Why We Stand During the Mass

The Catholic Mass starts with the Penitential Act which happens right after the priest walks down to the sanctuary. During this part of the Catholic Mass Order, we acclaim the Kyrie Eleison by saying “Lord, have mercy.”

The Kyrie Eleison is an ancient Christian tradition in which we confess our sinfulness to our Almighty Father and to our fellow Christians. This is in compliance to the New Testament command for us to admit our sins to one another.

During the Kyrie Eleison and most prayers during Mass, Catholics stand up. Standing has been considered the appropriate position for prayer since before Christ’s time. When we stand, we are following this centuries old tradition.

Standing is also a simple but profound way of honoring and respecting Jesus who is represented by the priest during Mass. During the first two readings of the Bible, we are seated and listening but during the Gospel reading, we stand up.

The Gospel is the Word of God and to hear these is a great honor which is why we ascend from our base position of worship. We stand to acknowledge the significance of hearing God’s very own words.

During the reading of the gospel, we make a small sign of the cross using our thumb on our forehead, lips and over our hearts. This simple act is a symbolic request for God to impress His Word upon our minds, lips and heart.

When the priest is done reading the Gospel, he will show respect to the Words of God by kissing the Gospel and then start his homily. After the homily, we stand up to recite our either the Nicene Creed or Apostle’s Creed as a Profession of Faith.

Why We Kneel During the Mass

Kneeling is the most humble way of worshipping God during Mass. When we kneel, we completely submit and surrender ourselves to our Heavenly Father. We kneel during several parts of the Mass.

After the Profession of Faith, we spend the rest of the Mass on our knees. This is an incredible act of faith and devotion because when we kneel, we acknowledge that Jesus is really coming. In light of the doctrine of transubstantiation, we kneel to recognize Jesus’ presence in the Eucharistic elements after the priest says the Eucharistic Prayers.


As we kneel during the rest of the Mass, the priest will perform a number of meaningful gestures. One gesture is the sign of the cross which the priest will do at different parts of the Mass, a prayer request for Christ to come and help strengthen us with His gifts. He will make the sign of the cross over the elements and proclaim “This is my body,” and “This is my blood” over the bread and wine.

Once the bread and wine are consecrated, the priest and the people celebrating with him will kneel in front of the elements to express reverence. The rest of us will rise again when the Lord’s Prayer and the Sign of Peace are said.

The Mass is rich with meaning, every element and gesture represents something profound and beautiful. When we understand these different meanings and take them to heart, each moment we spend during Mass will certainly become more transformative and nourishing to our souls.

General Guide for Catholic Mass

Action

Description

Stand

Start of Mass until the first reading

Sit

First reading until the beginning of the Gospel Acclamation

Stand

Beginning of the Gospel Acclamation until the end of the Gospel Reading

Sit

For the homily

Stand

Beginning of the Creed to the end of the general intercessions

Sit

Preparation of the gifts until the end of "Pray, brothers and sisters . . ." 

Stand

From the beginning of "May the Lord accept this sacrifice . . ." until the end of the Holy, Holy

Kneel

Eucharistic Prayer

Stand

The Our Father until the beginning of the Lamb of God

Kneel / Stand

End of the Lamb of God until distribution of Holy Communion

Stand

Receiving Holy Communion

Kneel / Sit

Silence after Holy Communion

Stand

Prayer after Communion until the end of Mass

The Importance of Charity Work for Catholics

The Importance of Charity Work for Catholics - Catholic Faith Store
The Importance of Charity Work for Catholics - Catholic Faith Store
When you give alms, do not blow a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites* do in the synagogues and in the streets to win the praise of others. Amen, I say to you, they have received their reward.  Matthew 6:2

As Catholics we have been taught about charity work through the gospels and various practices like outreaches. Thomas Aquinas esteems charity as “the most excellent of the virtues.” What does charity mean in the context of the Catholic Faith and why is charity work important to us as Catholics?

What is Charity?

So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love.  1 Corinthians 13:13

Most people think of charity simply as a benevolent act of giving. The most general definition of charity, however, means so much more than that. Charity in its purest sense means love and encompasses our love for God and our love for our fellow people. Thomas Aquinas said, “the habit of charity extends not only to the love of god but also the love of our neighbor.” These two kinds of love are closely tied to one another.

​Christian theology upholds charity as the greatest of the three theological virtues which includes faith and hope. According to moral theology, charity is a divinely infused virtue which lets us focus our will to cherish God above all things for His own sake and to cherish man for the sake of God.

​Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if one has a grievance against another; as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do. And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection.  Colossians 3:12-14

Charity is the ultimate perfection of the human spirit since it is a reflection and glorification of God’s nature. It binds all virtues together in perfect harmony. It also purifies and uplifts human love to the perfection of God’s love.

Why is Charity Work Important to Catholics?

In every way I have shown you that by hard work of that sort we must help the weak, and keep in mind the words of the Lord Jesus who himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’”  Acts 20:35

As members of the Catholic Faith we are encouraged to practice charity in different ways. Since the apostolic age, Christians were taught to not just give but to give from the heart to everyone in need regardless of their race or religion because “Christ is all and in all.”

Here there is not Greek and Jew, circumcision and uncircumcision, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all and in all.  Colossians 3:11

Although many world religions uphold charity work, it is specially emphasized in the Christian faith and is a central message in the gospels. For example, in Colossians 3:11 we are instructed to love our neighbors because they are the children of God. We are all part of the same human family and share the same nature, needs and dignity. Because of our kinship and unity as God’s people, we must have compassion and understanding for one another.

Charity teaches us to have a Christ-like love for our neighbors. This kind of love is unconditional and by it we are able to reach out to our brothers and sisters and help relieve any physical, mental, moral or spiritual needs they may have.

Charity is also about stewardship. A steward is a person who is tasked with caring for another person’s valuables. The steward is accountable to the “owner” for how well he manages the property he oversees. As followers of Christ, we are stewards of our lives. We are accountable for how well we live it and how well we manage the blessings, resources, capabilities and gifts that we have. We must therefore share what we have to the other members of Christ’s family through charity work.

How to Develop the Virtue of Charity?

Charity is integral to our faith as Catholics so how do we develop it? Here are three practical ways for living out this virtue in our everyday lives.

Treat others with love

The simplest way we can express charity is to speak, act and think with love. We must keep in mind that charity is all about love and as it says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, “Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, [love] is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth.”

With this Bible verse in mind, let us remember to always treat others with compassion. When we have love in our hearts and minds, it is easy for us to put the needs of others first. We act without self-interest and always with the goal of helping others out.

Support charitable institutions

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There are many charitable institutions that consider it their mission to help people in need and these groups usually get by with donations from people who share their advocacy. You can develop your charitable spirit by supporting these organizations. Start by praying to God for guidance in finding the charities that are fit for you.

We should also consider which causes burden our heart. There is no shortage of people and places that are in need of our help. As we reach out to them, we can see our own lives and hearts transformed by the spirit of giving.

Volunteer in your parish

We don’t need to look very far to find a group or people to help out. Our own churches are a great place to offer our help. Let’s remember that a church is not simply a building, it is a gathering of people who share the same love for God. We must all stand united in helping our parishes grow stronger. You can start by contacting your parish priest and asking which parts of the ministry you can assist in.

Each one of us has a special gift that can be of use in God’s work. For example, if you love children and enjoy teaching, you may help out in the children’s catechism of your church. Or if you have good management and accounting skills, you may help out in the administrative work of your parish.

How do you practice charity in your life? What charity work do you plan to do?

Prayers to Saint Clare

Saint Clare is known for warding off invading soldiers while kneeling in prayer holding a monstrance. She was an avid follower of St. Francis of Assisi and started the Order of Poor Ladies which is now known as the Order of Saint Clare. She is the patron saint of eyes and Television.

Prayer to St. Clare

God of Mercy,
You inspired Saint Clare
with the love of poverty.
By the help of her prayers
may we follow Christ
in poverty of spirit
and come to the joyful vision
of your glory
in the kingdom of Heaven.
We ask this through
our Lord Jesus Christ,
Your Son, who lives and reigns with
You and the Holy Spirit, 
one God, forever and ever. 
Amen.

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Role of Religion: How Religion Affects Family Relationships

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Some people put religion at the center of their family relationships and traditions while others do not put as much importance on it. Let’s look into the differences between religious and nonreligious families to better understand how religion affects their relationships.​​​​

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Religion has played an important role in human society for many years. As a result, families have helped promote and preserve religious beliefs and traditions. For many years, studies have examined the way religion has affected human relationships, particularly families.

Here are some of the positive effects that religion has on family relationships:

More Harmonious

A study published in the Journal Developmental Psychology, found that more religious parents had more cohesive family relationships. The research also showed that religious parents had fewer conflicts in their marriage. This study also found that adolescent children of religious families managed their emotions and actions better.

One possible reason why religion promotes familial harmony is that it encourages members to follow a common set of values. For example, the Catholic Faith teaches us to live out virtues of love, patience and humility and these are useful for dealing with tricky relationship issues.

Less Chances of Divorce

An article in the Journal of Family Psychology examined 94 different studies on family and religion found that religion had a small but distinct positive influence in preventing divorce among couples.

We live in a rapidly changing world that has significantly altered the way people view relationships. Religion gives us a solid foundation to build relationships upon like marriage. When couples share a common religious background or faith, they have a common middle ground to sort out relational troubles. They can view problems from a shared perspective and hopefully come up with a resolution that is mutually beneficial.

Emotional and Spiritual Support

Being part of a religious group offers families emotional stability and spiritual guidance. Having a community that makes us feel welcome and supported is important. We live in an increasingly complex world and some families may not be equipped to handle the issues of their family members. A religious community is a good place to seek advice and emotional support during difficult times.

Stronger Family Ties

Families that are part of religious communities are found to have stronger ties among members. This is according to the Journal Family Relations that examined 200 married men and women of 20 different religions. Researchers believe that this might be due to the community support that has been made available by organized religion.

Additionally, being part of a religious faith offers opportunities for enjoying activities together which in turn could strengthen family relationships. These activities include going to church, praying and studying religious texts.

Solid Set of Values

Religion offers an excellent avenue for parents to teach children important values like being humble, God-fearing, compassionate and kind. These values can prove crucial for navigating the world and relating with other people.

Religious organizations also offer resources that can help families strengthen their value system. A family that is part of an organized faith will also experience solid community support and guidance, as the saying goes, “It takes a village to raise a child.”

Religion can also cause negative effects as well such as:

Intolerance

When taken to the extreme, religion can cause followers to be intolerant toward those who they perceive to be different from them. We see many incidents of this in the news. An extreme example would be religious discrimination and terrorism. This negative mentality also manifests in more subtle ways within the family.

In a study published in the Review of Religious Research, gay and lesbian family members related that they felt like outsiders whenever they attended a religious family wedding. The researchers of the study propose that conservative religious faith may negatively affect family cohesion when family members do not fit the standards of their religion.

Lack of Autonomy

Very conservative religious parents usually have a distinct way of defining the behavior of their children. An article in the Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion argues that conservative Christian parents define well behaved children as obedient and they discouraged autonomy. This suggests that while religious families had more harmonious relationships, they were not necessarily healthy for their children.

Undeniably, being part of a religious community has many benefits but can be twisted in a way that becomes detrimental to our family ties. We should therefore be aware of the dangers of taking religion to the extreme so we can prevent it from becoming harmful to our relationships.


The role that religion plays in our family life is a deeply personal choice. Whether good or bad, religion’s effects on our family relationship will depend on how we apply its teachings.


How do you apply religion's teachings to your family relationships?


Do you feel that religion plays a positive role in your family?

Is it ok for Catholics to be cremated and have their ashes scattered?

Is it ok for Catholics to be cremated and have their ashes scattered? | Catholic Faith Store
Is it ok for Catholics to be cremated and have their ashes scattered? | Catholic Faith Store

Catholic cremation is a divisive topic within the Catholic Faith community because not many people understand the Church’s teachings on it. When a loved one passes away, it is up to surviving family members to make arrangements regarding what to do with the remains and cremation may come up as a possible option.

Let’s examine the advantages and disadvantages of Catholic cremation and what the Church says about it.

Why Do People Choose Cremation?

There are different reasons why people prefer cremation over traditional burials. The following are the most common reasons:

More economical

Some people choose cremation because it is more economical compared to the traditional burial. Unlike traditional burials, cremation does not require a coffin or burial plot. In the United States, the average traditional funeral can cost between $8,000 to $15,000 and sometimes even more whereas cremation costs only from $1,000 to $2,000.

Less time-pressured

A burial requires a more urgent time frame because the remains of the deceased might decompose if the funeral arrangements are not made on time. Cremation, on the other hand, is a less time-pressured option and the memorial services are more flexible and may be planned after the process is completed without an urgent time frame.

Better portability

Cremation is a practical option if ever the deceased lived away from his loved ones. If this is the case, the surviving family members will need to transport the remains and cremation is a more convenient and economical choice in terms of portability.

More eco-friendly

While cremation is not totally safe for the environment (because it still requires burning fossil fuels), it is relatively more eco-friendly compared to burials. Traditional burials require permanent plots of land and some of the hazardous chemicals used for embalming are at risk of contaminating the water table.

What the Catholic Church Says About Cremation

Since 1963, the Catholic Church has allowed cremation as a means of laying a departed loved one to rest but this was not always the case. Historically, the Church prefered a traditional burial over cremation because of the fundamental Christian belief in the resurrection of the dead and the dignity of our bodies. For these reasons, burning was not considered acceptable treatment of the human body.

In recent times, however, a number of practical concerns began to arise regarding traditional burials. One major consideration was money. In certain places in the world, buying a plot of land costed exorbitant amounts of money which made it nearly impossible for some Catholics to buy burial plots. The Catholic Church has modified its stance to accommodate the changing needs of the people. The Vatican’s Decree on Popular Piety and the Liturgy in 2001 describes cremation as “a contemporary phenomenon in virtue of the changed circumstances of life.”

Catholic cremation is mentioned twice in the current Code of Canon Law. Canon 1176.3 emphasizes that the Church recommends traditional burials but that that it does not forbid cremation unless the reasons behind it goes against Christian doctrine. Canon 1184.1 no. 2 mentions that ecclesiastical funerals cannot be granted to those whose reasons for cremation goes against Catholic Faith teachings.

Can Ashes of the Deceased Be Scattered? NO.

Although the Catholic Church allows us to choose cremation, we must be aware of the things that we can and cannot do especially regarding the ashes of our departed loved one. For example, it has become increasingly common for people to scatter the ashes in the sea or some place that holds sentimental significance to the family. Is this acceptable in the Catholic Faith? The simple answer is no.

The Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith recently issued updated guidelines regarding what can and cannot be done to the ashes of deceased loved ones. One of the guidelines include keeping the ashes intact after cremation.

Simply put, ashes should not be separated or scattered and they must be contained in an appropriate vessel in an appropriate place like a church or cemetery. Only a bishop is allowed to authorize exceptions to this storage requirement.

This guideline goes back to the fundamental Catholic doctrine of resurrection and that we must treat our bodies with utmost respect. Scattering ashes promote heretical ideas that are dangerous especially from a faith context. Some people think scattering of ashes allow departed loved ones to “fuse” with nature or as a form of liberation. This outlook overlaps with pagan ideals and are far from Catholic.

By choosing cremation the deceased's body is physically altered but it does not prevent the person's soul from entering heaven and it does not prevent the Lord from raising up the deceased body to new life.

Key Point​s to Remember

  • The ashes must be contained in a vessel.
  • The remains must be laid to rest in a cemetery or sacred place. They cannot remain at your home.
  • The remains must stay intact and not scattered.
  • The remains cannot be used as memento such as used in jewelry. ​

The Catholic Church certainly allows us to choose cremation over a traditional burial and having this freedom is important given today’s changing norms and especially with regards to practical concerns. However, as in all things, we must exercise this freedom responsibly by keeping our faith at the heart of our decision and always upholding our basic religious convictions.

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Prayers to Saint Ignatius

Saint Ignatius was a soldier who was injured in battle and was limited to resting in bed. A family member lent him a book about Saints to read while in bed. Upon recovery, he devoted himself to the Faith. He is the founder of the Society of Jesus and is the Patron Saint of Educators and Soldiers.

Prayer to Saint Ignatius Loyola

O Glorious Patriarch,
St. Ignatius, we humbly
beseech you to obtain for us
from God above all the things,
freedom from sin, the
greatest of evils. May your
example inflame our hearts
with an efficacious glory to
God and the good of our
neighbor; and obtain from
the loving Heart of Jesus,
our Lord, the crown of all
other graces, the gift of
final perseverance, and
eternal beatitude. Amen.

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Dearest Lord, teach me to be
generous; teach to serve You as
You deserve: to give, and not count
the cost; to fight, and not to heed
the wounds; to toil, and not to ask for
reward, except that knowing that
I am doing Your Will.
Amen.

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