The Importance of Picking His/Her Confirmation Name
Spring is a busy time in the Catholic Church; not only is it the season when we celebrate Easter, it’s also the season when the sacraments of Reconciliation, Communion, and Confirmation are typically received. Those receiving Confirmation have gone through many months of instruction, reflection, and prayer. As part of the process, candidates are asked to adopt a saint name, their confirmation name, that they will carry with them throughout their life. On the day they receive the sacrament, the bishop will confirm them using their chosen saint name.
What is the Purpose of a Confirmation Name?
When deciding on a Confirmation name, the goal is to pick the name of a saint you admire, can relate to, or aspire to be like. This saint will be bonded to you spiritually and will be your model in life and can be the one you turn to for guidance and protection. Throughout the Bible, there are many examples of people taking on new names, dating back to the Old Testament. God changed the names of many to reflect the special roles they’d play throughout the history of the Church. For example, God changed Abram’s name to Abraham meaning, “father to a host of nations.” This name change signified that God was making a covenant with Abraham that would make him the first of God’s people on earth. Simon’s name was changed to Peter, meaning “rock” and refers to Peter becoming the first pope: “And upon this rock I will build my church” (Matthew 16:17-18).
“And upon this rock I will build my church” (Matthew 16:17-18)
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Choosing a Saint Confirmation Name
There are thousands of saints, how do I choose? To help you narrow down your choices to the one saint who is your ideal match, consider the following:
Pick up a book on saints
Pick up a book on saints and read about the lives of popular saints who had a profound impact on the Church. The trials and tribulations that the saints experienced, as well as their triumphs and examples of faith, can be a great source of inspiration for your own life.
Hobbies and Causes
Do you have a hobby or a worthy cause that you are passionate about? Search for the saint who shares your similar goals and interests. There is a patron saint for practically every cause. For example, if you have a special connection to animals, consider choosing the name Francis (after the great animal lover St. Francis of Assisi). If you’re looking for a saint who lived an exemplary life of selflessness, St. Maximilian Kolbe is a great example. During World War II he gave up his life for another person's life in a German concentration camp. If music is your passion, St. Cecelia — patron saint of musicians — may interest you.
Maybe a virtue like Bravery or Courage?
Find a virtue that a particular saint exhibited that connects with you — bravery, obedience, charity, patience, or courage.
Do you find yourself standing up for those who need a little help? Maybe you should pick Saint Michael!
Are you well versed in bed side manner? Your catholic saint name would be Agatha for sure!
Need Help? Pray!
If you’ve narrowed down your choices and are stuck and can’t decide, pray!
Ask God to shed His light on who He thinks is the best name for you.
God Given Saint Name
If your first name (baptismal name) is a saint’s name, the Church allows you to use it as your Confirmation name. Doing so is actually encouraged because it’s a symbolic way of recalling your baptism.
Before you receive the sacrament, pray to the saint whose name you will be using as your Confirmation name. Ask this saint to help you to make moral choices and to be your intercessor before God whenever you call on him or her for assistance. After receiving the sacrament, don’t forget about your namesake! Remember to continue to seek his or her protection and guidance.
Visual Reminders
Set up visual reminders of your saintly namesake throughout your home, office, or in your car. Prayer cards, statues, books, and jewelry of your saint will help you to stay connected and to form a stronger bond.
Share with us the story of your own confirmation name and what you used to decide
March 17th is not all about 4 leaf clovers, leprechauns and green beer. This is a day to honor and pray to St. Patrick.
1,500 years ago, Saint Patrick was an influential saint who brought Christianity to the little country of Ireland.
Saint Patrick in the Early Years
He was born around 415 AD in the British Isles, and while he was still young he was captured by Irish raiders and sold as a slave.
After a few years of slavery and near the age of 20 he escape to Europe, became a monk and was ordained; he then returned to Ireland to preach the Gospel.
Saint Patrick Later in Life
During the next thirty years of his missionary he covered the Island with churches and monasteries. Although a small country, Ireland has played a large role in saving and bringing Christianity throughout the world.
St. Patrick has a few works attributed to him, one being his humbly written autobiography called Confessions.
Even after his death in 461, he remains the great bishop for Irishmen and their father in the Faith.
“I am greatly God’s debtor, because he granted me so much grace, that through me many people would be reborn in God, and soon after confirmed, and that clergy would be ordained everywhere for them, the masses lately come to belief, whom the Lord drew from the ends of the earth, just as he once promised through his prophets: “To you shall the nations come from the ends of the earth, and shall say, Our fathers have inherited naught hut lies, worthless things in which there is no profit.” And again: “I have set you to be a light for the Gentiles that you may bring salvation to the uttermost ends of the earth.”
There are 1.2 billion Catholics worldwide, filling more than 221,700 parishes. Each year, many adults are called to join the Catholic faith. How does someone join the Catholic Church? Through a process called the RCIA.
Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) is the process in which adults become full, participating members of the Catholic Church. Participants, known as catechumens go through a process of studying the Gospel, nurturing their relationship with God, becoming familiar with the Catholic teachings and practices, professing their faith in Jesus and the Church, and receiving the sacraments of initiation: Baptism, Communion, and Confirmation.
"I love those who love me, and those who seek me diligently find me." (Proverbs 8:17)
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Let’s take a closer look at the process of RCIA and answer some FAQs about this important journey.
Who can join?
The Church extends an invitation to all who wish to become members of the Catholic faith. Those who go through the RCIA process fall under one of the following categories:
Someone who is of another faith and wishes to convert to Catholicism
An individual who was baptized in another Christian denomination and wishes to become a member of the Catholic faith
Someone who was baptized in the Catholic Church, but never received the sacraments of First Holy Communion and Confirmation
What does the process entail?
There are four steps in the RCIA process.
1. Period of Evangelization or Inquiry
This is the first step in the process where individuals, known as inquirers, first consider joining the Catholic faith. Perhaps they heard a co-worker or friend discussing the tenets of Catholicism and their interest was sparked; or maybe they are in a serious relationship with someone who is a Catholic and want to convert.
Whatever the reason, they’ll have plenty of questions and will be looking for answers. Reaching out to a priest for guidance is a helpful first step. This time is spent searching, asking, praying, and learning if this is something they want to pursue.
2. Rite of Acceptance
Inquirers are publicly welcomed by the church community during a special mass when they declare their intent in embarking on the journey to becoming full members of the Catholic Church. At this point, the individuals are known as catechumens, the Greek word meaning, “one being instructed.”
During this step, the catechumens go through an extended period of studying and learning about the Catholic way of life. They’ll study the Scriptures and learn about the doctrines of the Church. They’ll regularly attend mass and reflect on the different readings each week. Once they’ve experienced a true conversion to the Catholic way of life (usually one year) they’ll go onto the third step in the process.
3. Rite of Election
This step takes place on the first Sunday of Lent. The catechumens formally sign the Book of the Elect declaring before the community, their family, and the bishop of their diocese that they are called by God to receive sacraments. They are now known as the elect.
Throughout the season of Lent, the elect go through the final step of intense prayer, purification, and enlightenment in preparation for receiving the sacraments at the Easter Vigil.
Initiation and Mystagogia.
The elect are fully initiated into the Church when they receive the sacraments during the Easter Vigil Mass on Holy Saturday. What better way to celebrate being fully initiated into the Church than when we celebrate the Resurrection of the Lord.
For the newly initiated, the period between Easter and Pentecost (known as mystagogia and lasting 50 days) is a meaningful time spent on reflecting further on the sacraments they just received as well as the commitment they made to the Lord and to their community.
Must-Have Tools
There are many tools available—from books to prayer cards—that can help enrich and inspire you and your loved ones on the journey to being full, active members of the Catholic Church.
Gifts to continue the journey
Once someone becomes a member of the church, their journey doesn’t end there. The journey of faith lasts a lifetime. The following are some meaningful gift ideas to give someone to remind them of their spiritual milestone.
Imagine you’re on a game show and the million dollar question in the Confirmation category is:
"Name the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit?"
Would you be able to name them? Would you walk away a millionaire? If you’d be completely stumped or if you could only name a few, you’re not alone. Many of us have difficulty recalling what these seven gifts that we received when we were confirmed are — especially if we received the Sacrament of Confirmation many moons ago! It’s important for all Catholics to be reminded of these marvelous gifts bestowed upon us, and more importantly, to ponder how these gifts help us live a virtuous life — the life God intends us to live.
What are the 7 gifts of the Holy Spirit at Confirmation?
The seven gifts of the Holy Spirit are: wisdom, understanding, counsel, fortitude, knowledge, piety, and fear of the Lord. As Catholics, we are given these gifts on the day we received the Sacrament of Confirmation. When the bishop lays his hands on the confirmandi (person being confirmed) he prays the following: "All powerful God, Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, by water and the Holy Spirit you freed your sons and daughters from sin and gave them new life. Send your Holy Spirit upon them to be their helper and guide. Give them the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of right judgment and courage, the spirit of knowledge and reverence. Fill them with the spirit of wonder and awe in your presence. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen." Then, the bishop makes the sign of the cross with holy chrism on the confirmandi’s forehead, and says, "Be sealed with the gift of the Holy Spirit."
Let’s take a closer look at what each gift means and how we are to use them throughout our lives.
Confirmation gift of Wisdom:
When we receive the gift of wisdom, we are given the ability to view the world through God’s perspective. Imagine that! With this gift we are able to see and evaluate all things — joy and sorrow, success and failure — through the eyes of God. Imagine walking through life with God’s wisdom helping us to make all of our decisions — big and small — and to see others as God sees them.
Confirmation gift of Understanding:
St. Thomas said, "In this very life, when the eye of the spirit is purified by the gift of understanding, one can in a certain way see God." The gift of understanding grants us the ability to comprehend the Scriptures, the messages they hold, and the meaning of Christ’s teachings. In a way, this gift goes hand-in-hand with the gift of faith: the more we understand the teachings of the church, the more our faith is strengthened.
Confirmation gift of Counsel:
The gift of counsel, also known as judgment, gives us the ability to judge what is good and evil and to act accordingly. It helps us to assess a situation promptly and correctly so that we are always living our life according to God’s will. Not only does counsel provide solutions to difficult and unexpected situations in our own lives, but it also helps us to give counsel to others.
Confirmation gift of Fortitude:
In our daily battle against temptation, sin, and anguish, we need the gift of fortitude to see us through. Fortitude is the mental and emotional strength given to us by the Holy Spirit to face adversity, danger, or temptation. Fortitude helps us to persevere throughout our time in this world so that we may reach our goal of being united with Christ in the afterlife. The lives of martyred saints are examples of fortitude in practice. Even in the face of persecution, fortitude helped them defend their faith.
Confirmation gift of Piety:
Pope Francis explained the importance of this gift when he addressed his general audience in June 2014, saying, “Piety is not mere outward religiosity; it is that genuine religious spirit which makes us turn to the Father as his children and to grow in our love for others, seeing them as our brothers and sisters, members of God’s family.” He goes on to say, “The love poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit leads us to perceive the Lord’s presence and love in our lives, and moves us to respond joyfully in prayer and adoration.”
Confirmation gift of Knowledge:
When we speak about the gift of knowledge, we aren’t talking about scientific or historical facts such as when World War I started and ended. Rather, we are speaking about spiritual knowledge. This gift helps us determine if we have all of our spiritual facts in order such as: are material objects and idols keeping us from putting God first? Are our sinful ways creating a road block between us and God? What is the state of our soul? Where do we need to make changes?
Confirmation gift of Fear of the Lord / Fear of God:
This gift is one of the most confusing and often misunderstood. The word “fear” is what throws many people off. Are we supposed to be afraid of the Lord? Not at all! Our relationship with the Lord is based on love, not fear. What this gift means is that we should fear the horror of sin and how sin separates us from the Lord. We should fear living, speaking, or acting in any way that offends the Lord. St. Thomas Aquinas explained it best when he said “this gift is a "filial fear," like a child's fear of offending his father, rather than a "servile fear," that is, a fear of punishment. We should live in wonder and awe of God’s perfection and fear ever hurting Him.
Are You Using Your Gifts?
These seven gifts were given to us by the Holy Spirit the day we stood before the altar to be confirmed. Of all the gifts we received that day, these seven are the greatest of them all. Unlike material gifts, these gifts are meant to last a lifetime; they never go out of style, they never tarnish, break, or need to be replaced. It’s up to us to put them to good use, and not just box them up and put them on the proverbial shelf.
Ask yourself: How have you been using these gifts of the Holy Spirit? Are you using them to your fullest potential? How have these gifts strengthened your relationship with God?
Symbol of the dove at Confirmation
The Holy sacrament of Confirmation is such an important part of one's Catholic journey it is very rightly celebrated; both by the confirmandi and their sponsors.
The very essence is the Holy Spirit, as the Bishop, or his appointee, lays his hands and anoints the head to pass on the strength imbued by the Holy Spirit. The dove has been adopted as the traditional symbol of the Holy Spirit as it represents innocence and purity.
The confirmandi will traditionally receive physical gifts as well as those from the Holy Spirit. You'll see that the dove is at the center of all physical gift items representing Confirmation.
On this sacrament the confirmandi will choose a patron saint to be devoted to for the rest of their lives, and they appreciate receiving a gift related to that chosen patron saint. These gifts include rosaries or pendants bearing the name of the Patron Saint along with asking them to pray for them.
The practice of wearing religious medals dates back to the 16th century when Pope St. Pius V began blessing medals containing the images of Jesus and Blessed Mary. As Catholics, wearing a medal is an outward expression of our faith. It tells the world, I am a follower of Christ. Wearing a medal with the image of Jesus on it also acts as a visual cue for us to pray to our Lord, asking for His protection and counsel. When we wear a medal of a saint or of the Blessed Virgin, we are motivated to live a life similar to how they lived — dedicated to Jesus. We can also pray to Blessed Mary and the saints asking them to intercede for us before the Lord.
Why Wear the Four Way Medal?
There are many religious medals Catholics can choose to wear — from medals of Our Lady and patron saints, to Jesus and the Holy Spirit. One particular medal — the Four Way Medal — is a popular choice because it combines four devotional images in one. Formed in the shape of a cross, it’s comprised of the Sacred Heart medal, St. Christopher medal, St. Joseph medal, and the Miraculous Medal. A dove, representing the Holy Spirit is in the center. The back of the medal usually features the image of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel and the Miraculous symbols along with the phrase, “I am a Catholic please call a priest.” In the event of a serious accident, a priest can be called to pray for the injured. Some variations of the medal have the words, “St. Joseph pray for us” and “St. Christopher protect us” on the back.
Significance of the Devotions
No one is exactly sure when the first four way medal was created or why St. Christopher and St. Joseph were chosen among all the saints to be incorporated into the design. Undoubtedly, their significance in the history of the Catholic Church played a role. Let’s take a closer look at the different components of the medal and why they are meaningful.
Sacred Heart of Jesus
The Sacred Heart of Jesus is one of the most recognizable depictions of Jesus. Jesus’ heart — wrapped in thorns, bursting into flames, and bleeding — was revealed by Jesus to a French Nun, by the name of Margaret Mary Alacoque, in 1673. The thorns represent our sins and how our sinning pierce Jesus’ heart; the flames represent His burning love for us; and the dripping blood represents the blood He shed for our salvation. During one of His apparitions, Jesus told Margaret Mary, “Behold this heart which has so loved men that it has spared nothing, even to the point of spending itself and being consumed to prove its love to them.” This image reveals the sacrificial love Jesus has for all of us.
Saint Christopher
Known as the patron saint of travelers, St. Christopher comes to the aid of those on a journey. Legends surrounding his life tell of the story of a boy who asked St. Christopher to carry him across a river. As St. Christopher placed the boy on his shoulders he notice that the weight of the boy grew heavier and heavier, becoming unbearable. According to the legend, the boy was actually Christ carrying the burden of the weight of the sinful world.
Saint Joseph
As the guardian and protector of Jesus, St. Joseph is the patron saint of the universal Church. When we pray to St. Joseph, we ask him to protect, guide, and care for us just as he did for Jesus.
Miraculous Medal
In 1830, Blessed Mary appeared to Catherine Laboure, a French nun, and instructed her to create a medal in her honor. Mary revealed the exact design of the medal and told Catherine, “Everyone who wears it especially around their neck will receive great graces.” Blessed Mary warned Catherine that the world is in turmoil and will continue in the future. However, she consoled Catherine (and the world) telling her "Come to the foot of the altar...There graces will be shed upon all, great and little, who ask for them.”
Everyone who wears the Miraculous Medal around their neck will receive great graces
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There are many stylistic variations of the four way medal. Some are simple and understated, while others are ornate and striking. They are filled with unending inspiration, meaning, and beauty and make a great gift for anyone, whether they’re receiving a sacrament, going off to college, moving away, or battling an illness.
The popularity of Antiques Roadshow, American Pickers, and other similar TV shows prove that as much as we embrace the modern world we live in (and all our savvy gadgets), we still have a strong interest in learning how generations before us lived, worked, played, and even worshipped.
Sadly, many of the devotional items and traditions that were once popular in the Catholic Church are now obsolete. Some religious traditions, however, are making a comeback and gaining in popularity. One such tradition is the use of sick call sets in the homes of Catholic families.
What are Sick Call Sets?
These sets usually consist of a crucifix, two candles, a vessel for holding holy water, and a stand. They are used by priests to administer the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick when they come to “call” or visit someone who is seriously ill and homebound. While the sacrament was originally only given to those who were dying, it can now be given to anyone who is facing a serious illness or surgery, as well as the elderly.
History of Sick Call Sets
While some collectors have come across sick call sets dating back to the 19th century, sick call sets likely existed long before. In the early days, before people had access to hospitals, sick family members were cared for in the home. A sick call set was therefore quite common in many Catholic homes.
Biblical historians point out, that sick call sets existed in some form or variation well before the 19th century. The act of anointing the sick is described in James 5:14-16: "Is anyone among you sick? He should summon the presbyters of the church, and they should pray over him and anoint [him] with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will save the sick person, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed any sins he will be forgiven."
In addition to anointing a sick person, these sets can bring immense comfort to loved ones. The Catechism of the Catholic Church points out that the Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick is “both a liturgical and a communal celebration…the Sacramental anointing of the sick can inspire and comfort both those who are ill and their family and friends who are gathered.”
How comforting it is knowing that “the sick person receives the Holy Spirit’s gifts of strength, faith, peace, and courage, and his or her suffering is united with the suffering of Christ for the building up of the Church.”
How is a Sick Call Crucifix Set Used?
Each sick call set comes with instructions and lets you know what to expect when a priest visits. According to the Unites States Conference of Catholic Bishops, the priest opens the celebration with a penitential rite followed by the Liturgy of the Word. Family members and friends are asked to pray to Jesus for the strength of his Holy Spirit.
“The priest lays his hands on the head of the sick person. He then proceeds to anoint, with the blessed Oil of the Sick, the forehead and hands of the sick person (in the Roman Rite). He accompanies these acts with the words, ‘Through this holy anointing may the Lord in his love and mercy help you with the grace of the Holy Spirit. May the Lord who frees you from sin save you and raise you up.’”
In Sickness and In Health
Even when every member of the household is in excellent health, a sick call set, especially the crucifix, is a poignant reminder of Jesus’ healing powers. Many choose to hang the crucifix on a wall--above a bed, in a child’s bedroom, or any place in the home as a reminder that Jesus doesn’t ever abandon us when we are suffering.
The crucifix is a reminder that we are to suffer with patience as Jesus did and to put our entire trust in Jesus’ mercy and loving care.
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As they say, “everything old is new again,” and sick call sets are an old tradition making their way back into the homes of the faithful.
Many Catholic Families will have a sick call set as they are used for anointing a sick family member or friend. Get one for your family today!
Saint Agatha was another martyr of legendary status. Agatha was a Sicilian virgin from a noble family.
She was said to have rejected the advances of the governor of Sicily resulting in the charge of being a Christian. She was threatened with torture if she did not renounce Christ, but her answer was,
“I am a handmaid of Christ & bear the appearance of a slave, which is of the highest nobility.”
Saint Agatha was held in prison while being repeatedly tortured, yet she held true to Christ knowing her place in Heaven with the Martyrs was awaiting her arrival.
Returning to prison she prayed and in the night apostle Peter appeared and miraculously healed her body. 4 days later as she was brought before the amazed judge, he ordered her rolled over glass and coal. At that moment a violent earthquake rocked the city. As she was taken back to her cell, she offered her dying prayer:
“O Lord Jesus Christ, good Master, I give You thanks that You granted me victory of the executioners’ tortures. Grant now that I may happily dwell in Your never-ending glory.”
Saint Agatha is the Patron Saint of Nurses & Breast Cancer
Saint John Bosco was born in Turin, Italy, in 1815
His father died when John was only two years old and it was his mother Margaret who provided him with a good Christian education.
At the age of twenty he entered the major seminary
John Bosco was ordained a priest on June 5, 1846, and with the help of John Borel he founded the oratory of St. Francis de Sales.
John Bosco formulated a system of education based on “reason, religion and kindness.” In spite of the criticism and violent attacks of the anti-clericals, he conducted workshops for the tradesmen and manual laborers, schools of arts and sciences for young workers, and schools of the liberal arts for those preparing for the priesthood.
Saint John Bosco founded the Society of St. Francis de Sales, which was approved in 1869
This great apostle of youth died on January 31, 1888, and was canonized by Pope Pius XI in 1934. Pope John Paul II named him “teacher and father to the young.”
Saint Thomas Aquinas taught philosophy and theology with such genius that he is considered one of the leading Christian thinkers.
He ranks among the greatest writers and theologians of all time. His most important work, the Summa Theologica, an explanation of the entire body of Catholic teaching, has been standard for centuries.
He inspired others by how he suffering with the poor in his efforts to alleviate their needs. Gladly giving his clothing or goods to them and keeping nothing unnecessary for himself.
Saint Thomas Aquinas died in 1274, at the age of fifty, in the abbey of Fossa Nuova.After he died his lifelong companion testified, “I have always known him to be as innocent as a five-year-old child. Never did a carnal temptation soil his soul, never did he consent to a mortal sin.” He cherished a most tender devotion to St. Agnes, constantly carrying relics of this virgin martyr on his person.
St. Thomas Aquinas is the patron saint of schools and of sacred theology.
Receiving the sacrament of First Holy Communion is an important rite of passage in your daughter’s life. Like any special event, there are many things that need to get done before the big day.
The months, weeks, and days before your daughter’s Communion are spent getting spiritually, mentally, and physically prepared. In addition to making sure your daughter understands the significance of receiving the Lord for the first time, you’ll need to fulfill other important duties—such as purchasing a dress and booking a venue.
While the sacrament of Holy Communion is typically celebrated in the spring, preparation needs to begin months in advance. The extra time gives you enough buffer space to handle the unavoidable glitch or two.
The following is a checklist of what to get done now so that the last weeks and days before your daughter’s Communion can be a little less hectic and focused on reflecting on the meaning of the sacrament.
1. The Dress
The dress is the main attraction at any girl’s First Communion (besides Jesus, of course). While most churches require the dress to be white, other details are usually left to the discretion of the parents. From selecting the style—simple to elaborate, to deciding on the details—cap sleeves or long sleeves, intricate beading or plain, there are many things to consider.
When choosing your daughter’s Communion dress take into consideration her personality and comfort. If she’s not used to wearing long dresses opt for a tea-length or one that hits just below the knee. Choose a fabric she’ll be comfortable wearing. You don’t want her to be fidgeting throughout the mass.
When should you order the dress? Keep in mind that certain dresses may be special order items that require extra processing time; this can be anywhere from a few days to several weeks before shipping. Don’t forget time for the alterations! We suggest ordering the dress about three months in advance.
Ordering your dress ahead of time is good for several reasons:
Free of stress from wondering if you will have you dress on time
Get your dress altered by a professional to make sure the fit is perfect
Book a photographer to get some wonderful photos for memories that last a lifetime
There are many ways to accessorize your daughter’s Communion dress to make it unique and special. The veil or headpiece provides that all important finishing touch. You can go with the traditional veil or opt for a clip, pins, combs, headband, tiara, or specialty barrette.
Other accessories to consider include shoes, gloves, and a purse. Have your daughter try the accessories early so she can get used to wearing them. Try out a few hairstyles in advance, too. You don’t want to learn the morning of that your daughter’s hair won’t hold a curl!
Many parents opt to gift family and friends attending their daughter’s Communion with a special party favor. These favors are a way to thank everyone for taking part in the special occasion and to give them a keepsake of the day. Depending on your budget, you can find meaningful gifts starting at a few dollars and up. Consider the following popular favor ideas:
On this joyous occasion, parents may want to give their daughter a special gift in honor of her spiritual milestone. There are many religious-themed gifts that your daughter will cherish for years and may even choose to one day pass down to her daughter. The following make meaningful gifts:
Jewelry: there are endless jewelry options that your daughter can wear on the day of her Communion and every day after. Consider a cross necklace, a pearl and birthstone bracelet, cross earrings, or a Miraculous Medal pendant.
In preparation for receiving First Holy Communion, your daughter has been (or will be) taking religious education classes. While these classes are a useful way to teach children about the fundamentals, it’s important for parents to supplement what their kids are learning with some at-home instruction.
Invest in a book on Bible stories or a book of prayers for children. Spend some time before bed reading to them and discussing the importance of the Catholic faith.
Whether you’re planning on having a small get-together at your home or a formal sit-down dinner at a restaurant, give yourself ample time to make necessary preparations and reservations. If you have a favorite venue you’d like to use, call in advance to book the day and time you want. Take lots of pictures and create a wonderful memory! You only go through this one time. God Bless.
Do you have any tips to share with other parents on how they can make their child’s First Communion a stress-free and meaningful celebration?
Saint Agnes is one of the most glorious saints in the calendar of the Roman Church. The name "Agnes", means 'lamb' in Latin, but in Greek it is 'the pure one'".
One day thirteen year old Agnes, was returning home from school, she happened to meet Symphronius, a son of the city Prefect. At once he became passionately attracted to her and tried to win her by precious gifts. Agnes rejected him, saying: "Away from me, food of death, for I have already found another lover"
"With His ring my Lord Jesus Christ has betrothed me, and He has adorned me with the bridal crown"
Mad by her rejection, he denounced Agnes to his father, the city prefect. When he threatened her with commitment to a house of ill fame, Agnes replied:
"At my side I have a protector of my body, an angel of the Lord"
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A light enveloped her and blinded all who tried to approach. Then another judge condemned her to the stake because the pagan priests accused her of sorcery.
As she was burning, she prayed with outstretched arms: "I extol You with my lips, and I desire You with all my heart and strength."
After the flames died out, she continued:
"I praise You, Father of my Lord Jesus Christ, because by Your Son the fire around me was extinguished."
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And now she longed for union with Christ: Her wish was granted; the judge ordered her beheaded.
Eight days after her death Agnes appeared to her parents with a train of virgins, and a lamb at her side.
Patron: Affianced couples; betrothed couples; bodily purity; chastity; Children of Mary; Colegio Capranica of Rome; crops; engaged couples; gardeners; Girl Scouts; girls; rape victims; diocese of Rockville Centre, New York; virgins.
The oldest historical account of the saint is found in a commentary on the psalms by St. Ambrose; the passage reads:”Allow me to propose to you the example of the holy martyr Sebastian. By birth he was a Milanese. Perhaps the persecutor of Christians had left Milan, or had not yet arrived, or had become momentarily more tolerant. Sebastian believed that here there was no opportunity for combat, or that it had already passed. So he went to Rome, the scene of bitter opposition arising from the Christians’ zeal for the faith. There he suffered, there he gained the crown.”Saint Sebastian was widely venerated during the Middle AgesKnown as a protector against the plague – Legend has it that when an altar was dedicated in his honor in Rome, a great pestilence was ended. Diocletian tried by every means to turn Sebastian from the faith of Christ. After all efforts had proven fruitless, he ordered him tied to a post and pierced with arrows.According to legend, rescued and healed by Irene of Rome. Shortly afterwards he criticized Diocletian in person and as a result was clubbed to death.Saint Sebastian is the Patron Saint of Soldiers. He is also known for these others:Archers; armourers; arrowsmiths; athletes; bookbinders; diseased cattle; dying people; enemies of religion; fletchers; gardeners; iron mongers; lacemakers; laceworkers; lead workers; masons; plague; police; racquet makers; Rio de Janeiro; Spanish police officers; stone masons; stonecutters.Shop for Saint Sebastian Gifts, Medals and Pendants
With three simple measurements for Bust, Waist, and Length you’ll be able to select the correct size without worry.
Bust Measurement
With three simple measurements for Bust, Waist, and Length you’ll be able to select the correct size without worry.
Waist Measurement
To measure the WAIST take the tape measure and wrap it around the entire body where the child’s mid-section is, just above the belly button. Hold the tape measure loosely and write down the measurement.
Shoulder To Hem Measurement
The length of a dress is measured from the shoulder to the end of the hemline. To measure where the hemline will fall on your child take the tape measure and start at the top of the shoulder. Run the tape measure down to end of the given size chart measurement. This will provide you with a guide for where the hem of the dress will fall on your child.
Celebrating the sacrament of First Holy Communion is just that, a beautiful and memorable occasion highlighting the Holy Eucharist and becoming a full participant in the Church. Along with the spiritual preparation come the other details of the day which include choosing a First Communion Dress and Accessories and coordinating the festivities after the church ceremony.
I remember my own First Communion with fondness. At school we prepared for months with nearly our entire second grade school year devoted to preparing for the Sacrament of First Holy Communion. At home there would be a big party with family and friends. The only sticking point for me and my mom was that I was a slightly overweight child. I loved to eat and my tummy showed it! Finding a plus size first communion dress for a cute buy pudgy child thirty years ago was certainly a challenge. When we finally found the one dress that fit, we purchased it and my mother watched my eating carefully so that I didn’t out grow it by the time of the May Communion date.
Thank goodness we have so many more choices today when it comes to shopping for a First Communion Dress. Not only are there more dress styles, there are more sizes, and most importantly there are more ways to shop for them. Can’t find a local retailer selling Communion Dresses? Or you just can’t find a large enough selection? No problem, shop online!
At the Catholic Faith Store we carry everything from budget dresses to designer First Communion Dresses with names like Christie Helene, Joan Calabrese, Sweetie Pie and more! www.CatholicFaithStore.com under First Communion Dresses.
We’ve had years of experience selling First Communion dresses at our office location as well as online and here are a few things we’d like you to consider when choosing your child’s First Communion Dress;
Fit of the Communion Dress
Tips on measuring for a first communion dress
Our single most important piece of advice for anyone shopping for a First Communion Dress is to take the child’s measurements. With three simple measurements for Bust, Waist, and Length you’ll be able to select the correct size without worry. Always compare the child’s measurements to the dress size chart as it is common for each dress to have unique measurements.
Please don’t assume that because your child wears a size 8 in clothing that she will automatically be a size 8 in her communion dress.
ALWAYS reference the size chart as some dresses run small and others are cut with generous proportions. The size chart measurements provided are for the finished garment. If the measurements are on the cusp of the size consider the next size up. If you have any questions regarding sizing call the store, we are happy to help. Toll Free phone number (800) 625-4610. Local / International customers phone +1 (919) 249-7120.
When measuring, please use a sewing or soft tape measure, not a metal retractable tape measure.
BUST
To measure the BUST take a tape measure and wrap it around the entire body where the child’s chest is, just under the armpits at the widest section of the chest. Hold the tape measure loosely and write down the measurement.
WAIST
To measure the WAIST take the tape measure and wrap it around the entire body where the child’s mid-section is, just above the belly button. Hold the tape measure loosely and write down the measurement.
LENGTH
The length of a dress is measured from the shoulder to the end of the hemline. To measure where the hemline will fall on your child take the tape measure and start at the top of the shoulder. Run the tape measure down to end of the given size chart measurement. This will provide you with a guide for where the hem of the dress will fall on your child.
First Communion Dresses come in a variety of lengths including knee length, tea length (between the knee and ankle) and floor length. Your child’s height will determine where the hemline actually falls so knowing the length of the dress is important.
Keep in mind that it may be necessary to hem the Communion Dress if you think it is too long. NOTE: if the hem of the dress has beading or embroidery, shortening the dress may not be possible.
Timing of Buying a Communion Dress
The First Communion shopping season starts in January and peaks at the end of April. In order to be guaranteed the dress you want we suggest you start shopping in February. This will allow you plenty of time to find the right dress, make alterations and allow for a dress to be made to order. Although you will always find a dress closer to the First Communion date keep in mind that some dresses are made to order.
If you are ordering your dress online call the store and ask about availability. 1-800-625-4610
Style of the Dress
Every Communion season we see a new line of Communion Dresses by our manufacturers and distributors. Just when we think the dresses cannot get lovelier, they do! This is because like all apparel, First Communion Dresses will change with the fashion of the day. There will always be classic and traditional First Communion Dresses as well as more contemporary styles to choose from and each season we ooh and aah at the latest creations.
What style is chosen will depend on your person taste and what you consider a beautiful dress. Some will prefer a traditional and simply designed dress, others will choose a more elaborate dress based on their family customs and ethnicity, and some will want a something very contemporary. But with so many choices where to start?
Color
The vast majority of First Communion Dresses worn in the United States are pure white. In many Latin American and European countries dress color can vary from pure white to ivory. If you are considering anything but a white dress, we strongly suggest you contact your parish for what may or may not be appropriate.
A Communion Dress with Sleeves or Sleeveless?
The answer is, it depends. From a shopping perspective there are more sleeveless First Communion dress options to choose from than there are dresses with sleeves. Your church may insist that shoulders are covered during the First Communion ceremony and if that is the case you can simply purchase a shawl, jacket or cape to be worn during the ceremony. Short sleeve and long sleeve dresses are traditional styles and do not require a cover up. If in doubt, contact your local parish or First Communion Director.
Type of Sleeves
For a dress with sleeves you can choose from a cap sleeve which hangs over the edge of the arm. This type of sleeve does not require additional cover up during mass. A short sleeve dress is a traditional sleeve that covers the entire shoulder. Three quarter length sleeves will reach the elbow and long sleeve dresses will reach the wrist.
Sleeveless dresses come in either a thin spaghetti straps. Many spaghetti strap dresses are paired with a bolero type jacket. Thicker straps and traditional sleeveless dresses will not be paired with a jacket but you can purchase a jacket, cape or sweater separately.
Length
A First Communion Dress should always fall below the knee. This means that some flower girl dresses, as pretty as they are will not be appropriate for use as a First Communion Dress. The length of First Communion Dresses will vary from just below the knee, to tea length (mid-calf), to floor length (touching the ankle).
The majority of First Communion dresses are tea-length but many more families are opting for a floor length dress and the selection of floor length communion dresses is increasing.
Plus-Size Communion Dresses
If your child is a little or maybe very overweight finding a dress might be difficult in a local retail dress shop. But the Internet has made shopping for a plus-size communion dress very easy (as long as you take measurements and follow the size charts).
Many First Communion Dresses come in what the industry calls half-sizes. These are plus size communion dresses that are exactly the same as their regular sized counterparts, but have been specifically sized to offer more space in the waist area where it is needed the most. If your child has an apple or pear shape, a plus-size dress will be ideal for sizing.
In our opinion the most flattering First Communion Dress style for a plus-size girl is an A-line dress. That is because an A-Line dress is fitted at shoulders and chest and at the waist gradually gets looser.
A-line Dress
An a-line dress is flattering on every body type! Especially if you have a bit of a tummy an a-line dress will create a slimming effect. An a-line dress is fitted at the top and then gradually flares out in an A formation. A-line dresses are typically made of a good quality satin and can be plain or embellished with various appliqués.
Princess Cut Dress
The most popular of the First Communion dress styles is the princess cut. This dress has a fitted top and a puff skirt. The extra tulle fabric in the skirt creates volume and most young girls love to twirl about when wearing this type of dress.
Illusion Top Dress
An illusion or sheer top will always draw attention to the top of the body and works well with a slim body type. Also keep in mind that if your child has sensitive skin, some sheer organza tops or sleeves can feel “itchy” so it is important to try on the dress to see how it feels.
Empire / High Wasted Dress
A dress that has a high waist and flowing bottom will have a very romantic look about it. The waist sash is very pretty on these dresses and are sure to be a comfy fit as the dress will not cling or pinch. A pear-shaped or heavier girl would not be flattered by this type of dress due to the flowing fabric around the hips and waist.
Sash Waist
A sash belt or waist band is a beautiful dress option as it provides a focal point for the dress and in many instances the tie back of the sash helps to hide a dress that may be just a little too large.
Floral Appliqués
Adding a floral appliqué to a first communion dress is both fun and elegant. Weather the floral accents are on the top or the skirt they will be a timeless addition to its styling.
Tiered Skirts
Tiered skirts are simply gorgeous. The tiers add volume to the skirt and a visual interest to the dress.
Dresses for Different Climates
Climate will often determine what First Communion Dress is selected. In warmer climates you’ll want a lighter weight airy fabric such as cotton or linen or a light silk or satin with not too many layers. Short sleeve or sleeveless dresses will also work in warmer climates.
If you live in cooler climates wearing satin, silk or taffeta dresses will make for a warmer dress. Many of today’s communion dresses are strapless or sleeveless so keep in mind that you may need to purchase a white sweater, wrap or cape to cover the shoulders and keep the child comfortable.
Budget
A First Communion Dress can vary in cost from under $100.00 to over $500.00, so knowing your budget is important. An expensive dress will not always guarantee the best dress for your child as style and fit are the keys to a great dress. Buying a more expensive dress will typically mean two things. First, the quality of the material used is more expensive to source and will use finer materials such as silk. Second, the craftsmanship will be greater. More expensive dresses are a combination of machine and handmade and will offer a greater degree of workmanship both in the sewing and application of embellishments.
We hope you’ve found this advice useful and that you have a blessed and stress-free First Communion celebration!
Happy New Year! Making resolutions is the norm this time of year, as we come up with a mental list of areas we want to improve or things we want to accomplish. While losing those stubborn pounds, exercising regularly, and getting to work on time are great resolutions, there’s one more important resolution that belongs on all of our lists: being more Christ-like. If you’ve fallen off the proverbial wagon in regards to praying, including God in your life, loving your neighbor as yourself, or practicing the other tenets of our Catholic faith, now is the time to hop back on that wagon and try again. As we start turning the pages of the book of 2015, here’s our list of faith-based New Year’s resolutions that you can try; we’ll be trying to stick to them right along with you:
Dust-off your rosary beads.
This year, make it your goal to pray every day. There are no formal rules when it comes to praying other than to just do it. You can pray when you’re driving to work, first thing in the morning, before you go to sleep, or when you’re folding laundry. You can read from a book of prayers or just speak from your heart to your most trusted confidant and mentor and the world’s best listener–God. One of the most powerful prayers Blessed Mary urged all of us to pray is the rosary. It was one of Pope John Paul II’s favorite prayers.
Read more about the lives of saints.
There are many books written on the lives of saints that are filled with examples of how men and women—just like all of us—experienced life’s many trials and tribulations. Learning how these saints navigated life’s difficulties while remaining steadfast in their faith can teach us how we can get through our toughest times. Let their actions and words of wisdom help us on our life journey. Check out some of our videos about the Saints in 60 seconds.
Scan the Ten Commandments—are you sticking to these important rules?
Many of us think that by not committing the “big” sins such as thou shall not kill and thou shall not steal we’re sticking to the Ten Commandments; but there are other important commandments that we must adhere to as well. Are you envious of a co-worker’s promotion or your sibling’s new sports car? That falls under commandment number 10: thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s goods. Are you guilty of spreading along a little “harmless” gossip? That’s breaking commandment number 8: thou shall not bear false witness against your neighbor. Print out the Ten Commandments and keep them somewhere visible as a reminder.
Seven deadly sins.
Along with the Ten Commandments, keep a list of the seven deadly sins handy. Also known as the seven capital sins, the seven deadly sins are: pride, greed, gluttony, lust, sloth, envy, and anger.
Pick up the phone or ring a doorbell.
If you’ve been neglecting broken relationships with family members or other important people in your life, now is the time to reconnect. Haven’t spoken in years to a sibling who has hurt you? As the Our Father prayer says, “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.” How can we ask God to forgive us our wrongdoings if we aren’t forgiving those who have wronged us?
Be a nicer person.
This resolution is simple and direct and is something we were all taught to be from an early age. Say please and thank you; let someone who seems to be in a rush jump ahead of you in the checkout line; carve out time in your schedule to spend with your aging parents; say “God bless you” to a stranger who sneezes. There are endless ways to be a nicer person.
Work on your short fuse.
If you have a short fuse when it comes to a difficult co-worker, a rebellious teenager, or a nosy neighbor, take a few deep breaths and pray for the patience to handle each situation.
Be happy.
How can you find happiness when there’s so much you have to worry about: putting food on the table, funding your children’s education, finding a job, the list goes on? Just as there’s always something to be unhappy about, there’s always something to be happy about. Try to find even just one thing to be glad about each day. “The true Christian,” says Pope Francis “exudes great joy. The Christian sings with joy, and walks, and carries this joy.” In true Pope Francis fashion, he goes on to say,
“Sometimes these melancholy Christians’ faces have more in common with pickled peppers than the joy of having a beautiful life.”
The Deacon Stephen, is the first martyr. Stoned in Jerusalem two years after the death of Christ.
The account in the Acts of the Apostles about his arrest and the accusations brought against him show a parallel with our Saviour’s trial;
He was stoned outside the city wall and died, as he prayed for those who were focused on killing him.
Stephen belongs to the group of seven deacons that helped the Apostles
He was “filled with faith and with the Holy Spirit,” “full of grace and strength” he showed himself as a man of God
As the first witness to Christ he confronted those against him with quiet courage and the promise made by Jesus was fulfilled:
“. . .Disputing with Stephen they were not able to resist the wisdom and the spirit that spoke.”
By establishing the feast on the day after Christmas, the Church draws a close comparison between the disciple and the Master, Our Lord.
Prayer to Saint Stephen
Please ask the Most Holy Trinity to fill my soul and the souls of all my brothers and sisters throughout the world with a deep hunger for the truth that comes from the Heart of Jesus, and also with the loving courage to embrace and profess the truth even amid difficulties, confusion, and persecution.
May the serenity and peace which were yours at the hour of your stoning be ours as well as we wait in hope for the coming of the Lord Jesus who lives and reigns forever and ever.
AMEN
The fourth candle is also called the “Angel’s candle” as we are reminded of the angel of the Lord appearing before a group of shepherds, proclaiming, “Behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord.”
As the final purple candle is lit on this Fourth Week of Advent, let us pray:
Pour forth, we beseech you, O Lord,
your grace into our hearts,
that we, to whom the Incarnation of Christ your Son
was made known by the message of an Angel,
may by his Passion and Cross
be brought to the glory of his Resurrection.
Who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever.
Amen
The third week of Advent, also known as “Gaudete Sunday,” means we have passed the half-way point and Christmas is drawing near. The word gaudete means “rejoice,” and at this point in our Advent journey our hearts should be filled with joy as we ponder the magnitude of Christ’s birth. We mark this joyful time by lighting the one and only pink candle on the wreath. Throughout Advent, priests wear purple vestments, except on Gaudete Sunday, when they wear pink vestments during the mass.
As the pink candle is lit, let us pray:
O God, who see how your people
faithfully await the feast of the Lord’s Nativity,
enable us, we pray,
to attain the joys of so great a salvation,
and to celebrate them always
with solemn worship and glad rejoicing.
Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,
who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever.
Who is Saint Lucy and what is she known for? Find out in 60 seconds.
St. Lucy was born in Sicily, where she also died. She was of a noble Greek family, and was brought up as a Christian by her mother.
Lucy’s mother was suffering from hemorrhage which guided them to visit St. Agatha. After praying devoutly at the tomb, Agatha appeared to her in a dream and consoled her. Her mother was miraculously cured and Lucy asked permission to vow virginity and giver her wealth to Christ’s poor.
Lucy was unwillingly betrothed by her parents to an unworthy youth that denounced her to the Governor of Sicily once he found out about her Christianity and charity.
The Governor of Sicily, aflame with anger sent her to an unholy place to receive her punishments.
They poured heated pitch and resin over her and built a fire around her, yet God held her solidly in place, unmovable by anyone attempting to harm her.
When she had endured all this without the least injury, they pierced her throat with a sword. Thus she victoriously ended her martyrdom.
Saint Lucy is the patron Saint of the blind. On her feast day, say a prayer to St. Lucy for those who are physically and spiritually blind.
The Virgin Mary has appeared many times to different people throughout the past 2,000 years, using them as vessels to send forth a powerful message. In 1531, a recent convert to the Catholic faith, by the name of Juan Diego, was one of those specially chosen to witness several apparitions of Blessed Mary. At the urging of Mary, Juan Diego helped establish a church in her honor at the Hill of Tepeyac (in an area north of Mexico City).
He was also responsible for communicating to all believers and non-believers the exact words she spoke to him during her apparitions: “I am your Mother full of mercy and love for you and all those who love Me, trust in Me, and have recourse to Me. I will hear their complaints and I will comfort their affliction and their sufferings.” As a result of the apparitions Juan Diego received and the many miracles that took place thereafter, the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe was established. It is celebrated each year on December 12.
Let’s take a closer examination at who Juan Diego was and the message he was entrusted by Blessed Mary to deliver to the all.
16th Century Mexico
During the 16th century, the indigenous people of Mexico were living under the dominance of idolatry. Far from embracing the faith of Christ, the Aztec people were subjected to worshipping many gods. Blessed Mary was troubled by the fact that so many were valuing other gods above her son, Jesus. She instituted change with the help of the humble Juan Diego.
Born Cuauhtlatoazin (which means "speaking eagle") in 1474 in Cuautlitlán, a region of Mexico, Juan Diego converted to the Catholic faith at the age of 50. After receiving the sacrament of baptism, he took the name Juan Diego.
Cattedrale di Cuautitlán
Blessed Mary Appears Before Juan Diego
St Juan Diego & Our Lady of Guadalupe
Know, my beloved son, that I am the Ever-Virgin Mary, Mother of the true God, who is the Author of Life, the Creator of all things and the Lord of heaven and earth; who is everywhere.
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On December 9, 1531, Juan Diego was traveling on foot to attend mass not far from his home, when he came to a hill called Tepeyac. While standing at the hill, he was overcome with the sound of beautiful music. The music was described by Juan Diego as being like many birds singing in harmony.
Listening in amazement, Juan Diego suddenly saw a white, radiant cloud appear before him. From the beaming cloud came a female voice that called out “Juan! Juan!” Staring in amazement at the bright light and the sound of a voice, he heard the voice call him again, “Juan! Come closer!” As Juan Diego drew nearer, he saw the Blessed Virgin standing before him just below the cloud. He described the image as: “The radiance of her garments transformed into the likeness of precious jewels the stones beneath her feet…the very soil had become a carpet of jasper, tinted in many colors.”
Blessed Mary spoke to him, “Know, my beloved son, that I am the Ever-Virgin Mary, Mother of the true God, who is the Author of Life, the Creator of all things and the Lord of heaven and earth; who is everywhere. It is my wish that you build me a temple on this site.
Here, as the loving Mother of you and of your fellow men, I will show forth my living kindness and compassion for your people and for those who love me and seek me, and call upon me in their labors and afflictions. Here I will hear their cries and their petitions, I will comfort and assuage.”
Mary instructed Juan Diego to go to the bishop in Mexico and to tell him exactly what he saw and heard so that a temple could be built in her honor.
A Doubting Bishop
Juan Diego heeded Blessed Mary’s commands and traveled to see Bishop Juan de Zumarraga. His meeting proved futile, however, as the bishop dismissed him without believing the story. Greatly disappointed that he wasn’t able to fulfill Blessed Mary’s wishes, he returned to the Hill of Tepeyac where Blessed Mary appeared to him a second time.
He told Mary of his failure to convince the bishop and urged her to send someone “noble and worthy of respect, for I am a poor, rustic lowly man.” Mary responded, “My well-beloved son it is through your intervention that my will and my desire must be done.” She urged him to return the next day to visit the bishop with the message, “she who sends you is the Virgin Mary, Mother of the true God.”
In Search of a Sign
The next day, December 10, Juan Diego traveled as instructed to the residence of the bishop. After hearing what Juan Diego had to tell him, the bishop was still not convinced. He told Juan Diego to ask Blessed Mary to give him a sign so that he would know without a doubt that she is the Mother of God and that it is her will for a temple to be built. Blessed Mary calmly listened to the request and told Juan Diego to come the following morning where she would give him a sign to take to the bishop.
Missed Opportunity
The following day, December 11, Juan Diego wasn’t able to keep his promise to visit Blessed Mary. His uncle, Juan Bernardino, was gravely ill and he spent the day tending to him. Fearing that his uncle would soon die, he set out at dawn on December 12, to summon a priest to administer last rites. As he neared the Hill of Tepeyac, Juan Diego remembered with despair his failure to meet Blessed Mary the day before. Shamefully, he decided to go an alternate way.
Soon, Blessed Mary appeared to him. After hearing Juan Diego apologize, she told him, “It is well, littlest and dearest of my sons, but now listen to me. Do not let anything afflict you and be not afraid of illness or pain. Am I not here who am your Mother? Are you not under my shadow and protection? Are you not in the crossing of my arms? Is there anything else you need? Do not fear for your uncle for he is not going to die. Be assured... he is already well.” Juan Diego rejoiced at her words.
Hill of Tepeyac Our Lady of Guadalupe
Miracle of the Roses - Our Lady of Guadalupe
As promised, Blessed Mary gave Juan Diego a sign to bring to the bishop. She instructed him to go to the top of the hill and to cut all the roses he found blooming and to place them in his cloak. He listened to Blessed Mary but was doubtful he would find any roses because the area was rocky and never produced any vegetation.
To his amazement, Juan Diego found a bountiful collection of fragrant roses when he reached the top. He gathered them in his cloak (tilma) and brought them to Mary. She rearranged the roses in his tilma and instructed him to take them to the bishop as the sign he requested. She stressed the importance of keeping his cloak closed and to not show anyone but the bishop what he carried.
Juan Diego carefully traveled with the roses and when he eagerly appeared before the bishop, he opened his tilma and released the many roses. The bishop stood in astonishment, not because of the roses, but because before him appeared a colorful image of Blessed Mary on the fabric of Juan Diego’s cloak.
It was the exact image of the Blessed Mary Juan Diego encountered on the hill of Tepeyac. Both the bishop and Juan Diego were awe-struck at this miracle. With great reverence and deep faith, the bishop finally believed the woman to be Blessed Mary.
Juan Diego & the Miracle of the Roses turning into the image of Mary
Final Apparition
On the same day Blessed Mary appeared to Juan Diego and instructed him to take the roses to the bishop, she also appeared to his dying uncle. She restored him to full health and told him that her image from that moment forward should be known as Santa Maria de Guadalupe.
The tilma with the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe remains perfectly preserved till this day. It has survived many centuries and even a bombing attempt to destroy it. It is on display at the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico City.
No one is certain why Blessed Mary chose the name Guadalupe. It is one of those great mysteries that perhaps one day will be revealed to someone entrusted by Mary to deliver the powerful message.
A First Communion Dress should always fall below the knee. This means that some flower girl dresses, as pretty as they are will not be appropriate for use as a First Communion Dress. The length of First Communion Dresses will vary from just below the knee, to tea length (mid-calf), to floor length (touching the ankle).
Many of us think that by not committing the “big” sins such as thou shall not kill and thou shall not steal we’re sticking to the Ten Commandments; but there are other important commandments that we must adhere to as well. Are you envious of a co-worker’s promotion or your sibling’s new sports car? That falls under commandment number 10: thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s goods. Are you guilty of spreading along a little “harmless” gossip? That’s breaking commandment number 8: thou shall not bear false witness against your neighbor. Print out the Ten Commandments and keep them somewhere visible as a reminder.
If you’ve been neglecting broken relationships with family members or other important people in your life, now is the time to reconnect. Haven’t spoken in years to a sibling who has hurt you? As the Our Father prayer says, “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.” How can we ask God to forgive us our wrongdoings if we aren’t forgiving those who have wronged us? 
